2006-08-05 13:39:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take it slow and steady...
let her know you like her..
give her space to finish growing up...
let her kow that when she is ready you'd be interested in knowing her better..
you don't have to date... you can just both do some things the same... get a group of freinds together to do something fun and ask her to come along... see what she says..
2006-08-05 13:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At 17 you should keep your options open. you have many years to just settle for the first female that comes along. You have college, a career and many things ahead of you. What you are experiencing isn't really LOVE it's the idea and thought of being in LOVE that is your quest!
2006-08-05 20:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date. Dont get sexual yet, wait until shes 18. And if you are on of those guys that love a person, but just cant go without sex, dont tell her that.
Tell her you would like to wait til shes older, because if you tell her that you need sex, the chances of her having sex, lets say, just incase the relationship fails the first time, with other guys, just because she feels that to keep a guy you need to, would be much higher then they once were.
2006-08-05 20:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by King 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 turning 18 this year..... we've been together for 3 months and its been goin good but to answer ur question are u sure that ur in love with her, if u are then go head and tell her, i-dont really kno what ur really askin but im gone tell u tha best way i can.... tha best way i know, a girl loves to here from her man but when u say that u love her are u really sure u can have MADD feelings for her and think its love but sayin u love someone is a BIIIIG step bt if u think ur really in love go head do what u have to do ........ wish 4 tha best....
2006-08-05 20:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as her parents don't see a major problem with it, I say what is the problem? If it's going to cause a lot of problems, though, you might want to back off. If you are really "in love" you could wait a year or so until she is a little older?
2006-08-05 20:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by xxjoanna_maexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there is NO problem,Tell her how you feel,If ya'll love eachother ya'll should be willing to make it work no matter what the circumstances are.If she is there for you and she is what you need,embrace it,love her allow your self to be in love and know that love has no age.Though(very important though),if it doesn't seem to work out it is very important to let it go,because successful relationships are not on the same page!!Live and Love,you may never find someone like her again,SHE LOVES YOU!!True love is SO hard to find and when you find it consider yourself lucky and hold on!!!
2006-08-05 20:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by None 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 15 i was madly in love with this guy who was 17 when i was 12 i loved him 4 3 years i still do and i always will
2006-08-05 20:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by emo chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jog in place until she is at least 16 & then ask her parents if you might take her out. Do not become physically involved, unless you would like your next date to be someone called Bubba, who you share a cell with.
2006-08-05 20:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by shearnerve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are Young like you to are it is a no no her being 14 and you 17 . but when you get older it is OK . y ?? i don't know that one . i am 30 my man is 38.beside you will be 18 soon and she will only be 15. you need to think about that..
2006-08-05 20:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by tessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be careful, because girls are pretty much crazy until they grow up. Some don't grow out of it either. For now, it's OK for you to go out with her. Just go and talk to her, and get her number. Then try to start taking her out. That's about all you need to know to get started. Simple, huh? Remember, be careful. Good luck!
2006-08-05 20:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and take things slow, 2 years in age isnt much of a differnce but put her needs first and things will go well ,Good luck
2006-08-05 20:44:22 · answer #11 · answered by lilmrsgracefulone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋