Ok i have this guy friend we've been best friends for about 5 years and all of a sudden we decided we wanted to b4 more than friends. We both agreed that we loved each other and wanted to be together he asked me to send him some pics of me topless me being stupid did, and he said he liked them and everything was great.. and he still wants me but all of a sudden he stopped talking to me when he did it was to tell me that he had found someone else....what do i do?? he says he'll stay single until we do what we was going to but i feel like a whore like thats all he wants from me, im a virgin so i want it to be special for me but i also want it to be with someone that cares about me.....he said will be friends for forever but what do i do???? Do i sleep with him that away 50 years from now i can say yea it was special i slept with my best friend or i regret it bcause come to find out thats all he wanted....Im confused....please help me
2006-08-05 13:34:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes two yeses and one no for intimacy (or anything else) in a relationship. It sounds like one yes and one no in this one. My wife has a saying, "If you're confused, suspect a lie." You're right to be confused and don't get more involved until you feel comfortable. You have the right (and duty) to say "No" if that's what you feel deep down inside.
2006-08-05 13:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is pressuring you to do something you do not want to do. If he was a real friend he would let you do what would make you happy and not force you to make him happy. I would wait because 50 years down the road you might regret letting him have sex with you.
2006-08-05 20:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lisette F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋