we haven't even held hands or kissed yet and i really want to but i think he just wants to have a nice relaxing relationship. wat should i do??
2006-08-05 13:21:50 · 11 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should be asking your boyfriend. If you're not holding hands or kissing, you should have plenty of time to talk.
2006-08-05 13:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by Muralasa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After four months, I think it would be appropriate for you two to kiss and hold hands. One day when you're both watching a movie or something, take his hand and see how he reacts. Then (not the same day, or it might be pushing it) kiss him on the cheek or something. Then, after you've done those things for a while, go for his lips. And touch his back or arms when you kiss him. He must be very laid back to have restrained himself so much for four months. Don't go too fast, though. He sounds straight, but you may make him feel anxious if you suddenly start coming on strong. Some people are extremely laid back that way. Another possibility is that he wants to wait until you are ready for such things. Good luck!
2006-08-05 20:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky my boyfriend and I have been going out for a week and he's already all snatchy makey outy!!!
Back to your problem, You should make the first move if you aren't that shy...Try to hold his hand during a movie or something...Just be calm about it and if he rejects your attempts/anything like hugging, hand holding, kissing, etc maybe you should rethink the relationship....:/?
2006-08-05 20:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Dollie Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can do one of two things. First you can either.. just reach out and take his hand or lean over and kiss him.. Second.. you can just be patient and wait.. maybe for a really long time.
2006-08-05 20:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just trying to take it slow. I think it's nice he isn't trying to take advantage and paw all over you. He seems to me like he's just a nice guy acting the way a gentleman should. Go with the flow and wait and see what his intentions are. I hope he is as sweet as he seems. I think you may have yourself a winner. Good luck.
2006-08-05 20:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want something to happen. talk about it. see what he wants. if it is a relaxing relationship. is that what you want.?have you really been going out for 4 months or do you think you have?
if you want to find out grab his hand. be in charge to let him see what you want of the relationship aswell.
2006-08-05 20:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been my experience that this sometimes is a game men play - move slowly then when they have your trust they want A LOT and quickly- so, I am cynical in regards to your situation - be careful and protect your heart
2006-08-05 20:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by leo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to get legit advice, include you all's age.
2006-08-05 20:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by dadnnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait along w/ him-good things come 2 those who wait.
2006-08-05 20:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls I know would be cool with that.
2006-08-05 20:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋