Ladies, what would you honestly want your male-friend to do?

Question

Okay, I'll be blunt. . .

Recently, I was browsing through some soft-core porn on the internet, and I almost had a heart attack!

Two female friends of mine (non-romantic) were featured in a seven or eight photo spread wearing basically nothing but their underwear.

To clarify, it was obviously a college party or something in which other women (and maybe men) were also just in their Skivvies. No sex, no nudity, lots of booze, they were looking at the camera and obviously consented to the photos being taken, and they looked GREAT!! The women are now 33 years old or so, and the photos look to be about ten years old, and I'm quite certain my friends are unaware of them being on the 'net.

What should I do? Quietly advise the website to please take off the photos? Tell them about it? Tell one of their boyfriends about it? Or just plain shut up?

And no, I will not post the link. . .LOL~!~

Thanks!!

Answer 1

leave it alone!, if you tell them, they will feel embarassed, an your relation ships may change, if you tell there boy friends, there is a chance of them getting upset over this and one or both of your friend s my lose there bf's, in return would come back to bite you in the a$$, so again your realtionships might change, or be non existent, ow ever you could try to get them to notice on there own, in some way i cant think of a way now, but you never know they may know about it , just havent told you , any whoo, id just leave it be , good luck, p.s, your lucky to be friends with such stars, lol!!

Answer 2

If it was a friend of mine, I would want him to tell me what he had seen and where, so I could try to remove the photos from the net. Crap like that can really mess up your life later!

Even if they consented to having their pictures taken, guaranteed they didn't consent to having their pictures displayed for all the world to see!

Also, you may want to reconsider looking at porn, whether hard or soft. You know, those people are SOMEBODY's friend, sister, brother, daughter, son, right?

What I mean is: I would be thankful to know that my friend told me all this to begin with, but later on uncomfortable with him, knowing how he was looking at me before. Are we still friends now, or am I just an object?

Answer 3

I would want you to tell me. I would probably be embarassed around you for a while, but would get over it and appreciate that you were looking out for me. It's the right thing to do, they should be aware of this. Like I said, they might avoid you for a while, but they would have to be grateful as well. DON'T tell their boyfriends, that might get them (either girls or boyfriends) mad, and would not spare anyones feelings; when the boyfriends told them, they would know it came from you, anyhow, best to be direct, that spares the most people from embarassment. Even if they are already aware of it, they will think it is sweet that you are concerned.

Remember; discretion is the best form of valor.

Answer 4

I say don't mention it. I mean they were obviously aware that something like that could have happened. I mean it probably even could have been for the internet in the first place when they did it. So I say keep it to yourself. And if one of their boy friend's find it let them explain what the situation was. Don't want to be the guy that breaks up a relationship because you did too good of a deed for them.

Answer 5

I would tell them about it. If they are unaware of the photos being up on a website, then they need to contact the website and ask them to take the photos off.

Answer 6

If it were me on that site (and don't get your hopes up...) I would want to know about it. Whether or not the ladies consented to the photos thay may not have consented to them being posted... but then again, maybe they do know and are proud of it?!

But the choice should be theirs. Then, please don't let it change your relationshiop with them in any way.

Answer 7

I think you should tell your two friends who are in the photos about it. I think they would have better luck having them removed from the net than you would, since they are the ones in the pictures.

Good luck to you telling them and also to them having the photos removed! :)

Answer 8

i think you should tell them because if they might not want to be posted on the net then why spread the word more to other people. so if this bothered you ion the first place then do something about it becuase its probably the right thing to do.

Answer 9

I'd want to stay my male friend from porn sites in the first place..filthy lil thing!

Answer 10

Laugh about it and be like...."hey did you know that you are on the net?" Then laugh again and drop it. If none of them are your wives...then dont worry about it TOO heavily.