I am sixteen and I have given my bf head. I really don't want to hear how I am to young to do that. What I do need help with is finding a place to do it without getting caught. I used to do it in the couch of my house whne no one was in the living room, I never got caught but I want a place where I don't have to be paranoid I will get caught. I have no car and i need ot permission to goto places but my mom likes my bf and will let me but where can I go?! Where NO ONE will catch us and I can take my time and do really well. Thanks in advance!
2006-08-05 12:45:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People it's not like I haven't so just please tell me. It wont stop me from doing it, it's my business and I am asking nicely for your sneaky advice.
2006-08-05 12:51:45 · update #1
My room is off limits. I share a room.
2006-08-05 12:55:06 · update #2
People, I am not going to display it in front of others. Common sense and if you are going to tell me I am too young that isn't my question so then don't answer in the first place. I want to know where, not if its wrong!
2006-08-05 12:56:37 · update #3
We have different standards, don't try to change mine. I am not easy. My bf and I are in love and I am not having sex so I don't find a dam problem with my age!
2006-08-05 12:57:15 · update #4
Part of being a teenager is the anxiety about getting caught doing stuff. We all went through it. There's nowhere "good" to go and not risk being caught. Do what we all did - get a car, wait for one set of parents to go out of town, etc.
2006-08-05 12:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing it in the living room when no one is around is just a terrible idea. All that has to happen is that you get caught once and everything will go to ****. It is really not worth the risk, so you need to find a new place to do it or not do it at all.
It isn't always easy to find some place to go. It can be really frustrating. How about your bedroom? Or can you go over his house? Or you can go for a walk together-are there any woods nearby? Basically, for you it will be really hard to go someplace and be ABSOLUTELY sure no one will see you. So the best you can do it do it somewhere that if you do get caught, the people who catch you don't care or don't matter. So that means no where that your family can see you. How about the movies? Go to a really crappy movie that has been out for awhile. No one will be there, and the people whoa re there are probably going o be doing the same thing you plan on doing. (Go for the farthest row back, and stay as far away form other people if you can)
Good luck.
2006-08-05 19:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by Irony Of Poe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared of being caught then you shouldnt be doing it. If nothing is wrong with what you are doing then why are you asking for hiding places. What did you expect to recieve from posting this kind of question on here? Actually tell you where you can hide and fornicate and give you b**w job tips? ewww. You are 16, no car, no house, pay no bills, underage, so you shouldnt be giving anyone head since you basically have no rights or opinion. You dont even own your own a** till your 18. You can't go nowhere and have sex cause you aren't legal darling. Grow up first ok because if you were, you wouldnt be asking this kind of question. Responsible adults do not have to play hide-go-seek. Stay in a child's place.
2006-08-05 19:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me. this is NOT your problem! If a guy wants a BJ, he will find a place!!! Tell him you're leaving it upto him since he gets the main benefit.
Also, the answer might depend if its like an 8 foot thing you can wrap around the side of a 7-11 into an alley.
2006-08-05 19:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to do what you want to do. I am a male who has been through the same thing. Try something different like going to a park at dusk and doing it there. Or some other remote place. Don/t let the other answers persuade you.
2006-08-05 19:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by tim s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is that if you have to hide it then it's wrong in the first place. Oh yeah you are to young to be doing that.And if your mother ever finds out she want let your bf back into the house.
2006-08-05 19:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest adults do not have such problems because they do have their own cars, houses and can even rent a hotel room, if necessary. I don't know what to tell you. If you have chosen to do so just be careful and protect yourself. And I do hope you realize that if any adult sees you, especially a cop, he will arrest and put in jail your boyfriend, regardless if he is over 18 or not, because that is statutory rape.
2006-08-05 19:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to tell not knowing your neighborhood but, you seem to care a lot about doing a good job but have you thought about you receiving something like cunnilingus yourself? Giving BJ to a man is something you can catch easily when you like to please your lover but for a female it takes more time to get satisfy from oral sex. Maybe you need a space so your bf can practice his technic on you sweetee. Let him work on this problem, don't take everything on you. Sex is about giving and receiving.
2006-08-05 19:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jolia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where you live. If you're sort of in a backwoods area you can just go for a walk. You could also consider the bedroom if the door locks.
2006-08-05 19:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by antiheroes_anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you where but your a minor so I will refrain from helping you give some guy head. Ask again two years from now.
2006-08-05 19:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋