there is this boy i like and ihave ask him out but he said no cuz he is not the relationships kind of guy i want to just make out with him i well do anything for him i well even have sex with him if i had to omg i am just crazy about this guy someone help me plzzzz....
2006-08-05 12:42:09 · 28 answers · asked by hot_noe_1235 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all right look if you feel this strongly over this guy
tell him what you want to do
explain to him how you feel
if thats all you want then tell him that
because if you dont want a relationship then he shot you down for no reason
2006-08-05 15:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by gellisa m 2 · 11⤊ 3⤋
Don't you care about yourself? If he's not the relationship type, what does that leave? If you sleep with him, he's just going to move on the next day. Forget about talking to him and respect yourself. You may be attracted to him now, but I really think you'll find that there's really no depth to him. The realization of that should happen as a relief (Oh! Thank goodness I didn't waste my time on him), not a regret. Trust me on this, I've had the same thing happen. I was crazy about a girl because I thought at the time she was the most beautiful girl I'd ever seen, but I was saddened and disappointed when I started to know her better.
2006-08-05 12:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by aghostprofilebeingempty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally that your first attempt to go out with him didn't work out. As long as you two are talking and you ask questions trying to figure out why he don't want to go out with you.
He could have reasons that are understandable for not wanting to go out ? He could have been hurt before in a previous relationship by a girl ? Parents Divorce as that can have some people to be prudent about relationships ? The above are a guide to give you some ideas as the rest you can make up .
I'm assuming that you both are of age to have a relationship and not too young.
2006-08-05 12:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone like you...even if you would do ANYTHING for him. And don't say you are willing to have sex with him..b.c that's not a healthy relationship and you wouldn't want to be in a relationship that's all about sex. Tell him how you feel, tell him that when he's ready to be in a relationship your going to be there...telling him that your willing to wait, that shows that you care, and he'll be willing to give yo a shot. But don't tell him that you'll have sex with him, because then he'll be with you for all the wrong reasons...and when he says "I love you"...he won't mean it...and you really should want a guy that means it and would treat you like your a princess...Good Luck!
2006-08-05 12:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by Nanner♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to be promiscuous. Work on your self esteem before you worry about boys. You'll feel really badly about yourself if you let this boy use you. And since he's obviously not interested in you that's all it would be- him using you. If you tell him you want to have sex, he'll do it. That's how guys are. But he won't like you any more for it. In fact he'll think you're a whore. So move on. It's not worth it!!
2006-08-05 12:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by tammyb752001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill, girl. Nothing turns guys off like that kind of desperation. And you should have more respect for yourself than that -- being with you is a privilege, and any guy who doesn't think so doesn't deserve you. Also recognize that those feelings can get you into trouble, especially if you feel them for a guy who just wants to sleep with you and move on. Keep your friends close, and if they tell you that a guy that you like is no good, listen to them.
2006-08-05 12:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off he told you in a nice way he does not want a relationship. second and more important you should not have sex just to get somebody sex should come as a result of two people that really care about each other marriage would be best but nobody does that now a days, but i think you should atleast get to know him better.be friends first see where it leads
2006-08-05 12:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by wondering_lefty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok soo u want this guy..dont make it ovious u want him. just talk like nothing is going on wit him and let the whole-u asking him out thing blow over for a few weeks then you can make your first move. i wouldnt start off with just going right to a home run, start off at 1st base. and remember u cant MAKE him love you, but u can make him b attracted to u, phyisicly.
2006-08-05 12:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him...and forget thinking about having to satisfy some guy sexually for attention. You will end up regretting things in the end. You need to work on your self esteem.
2006-08-05 12:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you talk to him? The way you are writing to a total stranger like me. Be careful, do not show all your cards... if it is too easy it won´t last a week and you´ll be regretting your strategy.
2006-08-05 12:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by Marco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a little independent usually men prefer hunting the girls. If you are too easy to get, he might think that anyone could...even if not.
2006-08-05 12:48:01 · answer #11 · answered by Jolia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋