I messged him when i got in for some reason but never heard from him . His msg could be broke?? We made out heavy and didnt have much to talk about, but we got along good online.
I dont know anyway im scared he might diss me or something.
Even though it was only 1 date I need closure we had been talking online for so long. What do i say so i wont sound crazy. will he think im desperate for gettin in touch after 10 days? Like i was waiting or something.
I dont know why i want to call him, hes not my type and hes kind of boring, but i NEVER make out with guys on the first date and we did, so now i guess i want to know WHY! He was having alot of fun too i could see the 'excitement' thru his jeans.
Men whats the worse thing that could happen? Like whats the worst that u would do if u didnt like me any more?
Somebody give me some lift-meups what are some reasons he might not have called. he had 10 days!!
2006-08-05 12:26:49 · 22 answers · asked by LN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are probably feelin vunrable because you said that you usually don't make out on the first dat but you did with him. You proabbly feel somwhat used and you want to be in controll so you don't feel hurt any longer. Well chin up babe! He is not gonna call but if you call him i will be very dissapointed. It is his loss. but you need to move on and find somone else trust me. this way it looks like you really don't care if he has called or not you have a life and you are gonna live it with or with out him but if u IM him or call him, he is still not gonna call u back and you are just gonna look desprate and crazy at the same time. Much LUCK -amanda
2006-08-05 12:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well - lesson learned: Don't make out at the first date. Seriously - that usually makes a later relationship difficult to develop. Boys and girls make out for different reasons in a first date (and later often too). Like really - the guys want sex, that's it. The women also want some bonding.
Sure there may be reasons that he did not call: he can't find your phone number, he lost his phone, he was traveling abroad.
But nahhh....you should move on. If you call him now you will not sound relaxed and like fun but probably rather desperate. And this is sure not what a guy wants to hear.
Next time be smarter, sell yourself better, at a higher price. Besides getting physical there are other means to show you like a guy and want to meet again. Reel them in with patience.
2006-08-05 12:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by spaceskating_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u said he is not your type and he is boring, If i may ask, why do u keep bothering yourself? Besides, the relationship might not work. And who knows? Maybe he doesn't like u or maybe u didn't meet his expectations (talking 'bout the date). Because for me, 10 days is too long. So why give ur self problems over a guy who took u out on a date and couldn't even say hello after 10 days. Wow! I think five is even too long. Move on with ur life. If he eventually calls u, good and if he doesn't, well "move on". u have got nothing to loose. "u 'll find the right guy one day".
2006-08-05 14:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i always give ppl zillion of reasons 4not calling back. that's no 1.
no.2: u say u don't make out in first dates but u made out with him. well honey that's a very strong reason why u should meet him and want 2b with him alot.
no.3: if u chat online then that means that there's something abt u that attracts him, so don't give up.
in my point of view, i think there's NO reason that he would want 2dump u.
so CALL HIM and check upon him. u should probably say: i called u 10 dayzz ago and u didn't answer so i was kinda worried abt u and i just wanted 2check that everything is ok. go out in an indirect date with him, movies, shopping lunch in a mall...etc
and try 2find out if he likes u or not.
GOOD LUCK. and let me know what happened. bye :)
2006-08-05 12:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by strawberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is truly interested in you...he will call YOU and ask you out. He has not contacted you and it sounds like you got too hot and heavy on the 1st date (that is a NO NO!!!!).
You will have to move on. There is someone else for you.
And NEVER EVER EVER EVER AGAIN should you get too physical on a 1st or even 2nd date. If you follow this piece of advice you will save yourself some serious heartbreak!!!
2006-08-05 12:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear, his msg is not broken. Things just didn't work out. He is probably embarassed that you guys made out and that you "saw his excitement". What you guys had was lust. You said yourself you didn't have much to talk about. Move on and be very careful about meeting guys online. The next one might be dangerous.
2006-08-05 12:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not give him a call..whats the worst that can happen? You said he was boring and all so on that hand why do you care? Maybe he was just scared at his enthusasim..guys are hard to understand..lol what more can I say?
2006-08-05 12:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun my sister met a dude online went from louisiana to utah for a week, had to come home to bring her lil girl back to the daddy and never heard from the guy again and yea they enjoyed each others company ( sex daily)
now i met a guy online and were married ( together almost 7 years now ( will be 7 years in october)
if he is not your type move on, he obvisuoly did
2006-08-05 12:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Lisa♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him call you, dont go running after him, if he wants to play games let him, but that doesn't mean that you should have to suffer, you shouldn't wait for him, go out and have some fun and forget about him if he doesn't respond in a week!
2006-08-05 12:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Closure in this case is for you to close it. If he had good intentions I feel like he would still be calling you or sending you messages.
2006-08-05 12:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by blessed700 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋