ok so i have a bf but there is this other guy who is like my best friend. i spend a few weeks at his apt. and some things happened between us.. recently i don't feel like my bf turns me on but the other guy does. we used to have fun together and it was realy cool but after we slept together things changed. he changed. and he says that i have a bf so that's why he doesn't want to do anything about "us". but i want to keep him. and i can;t hurt my bf. he loves me a lot. i am realy confused. we have been together for 2 years and i don't wanna break it but i just feel him like a brother. and actually i don't think it is gonna work our with the other guy because he lives in another town. so what should i do? i can't talk to any of my friends because it is too risky.:)
2006-08-05 12:24:34 · 8 answers · asked by Val 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well OK then though but if you you feel that you are so dieing in love with the other guy then go for it sweetie. But you are one bad senorita o sorry for the Spanish words. Follow you're heart but u might end up loosing them both. Good luck though. lol!
2006-08-05 12:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
u need to talk it over with ur best friend, thats always the solution, talking it over, because you dont want him to be hurt. but on the other hand if the other friend is in a different town and deep down inside you feel that it wont work, then break it off, but make sure you tell that friend why ur doing it. But you must talk it out!
2006-08-05 19:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...first of all, you need to decide. you cant lead them both on like this, because its going to rip them apart in ways that you cant even imagine. trust me, i know from personal experience. I'd say that you need to decide whether its worth the risk with the other guy in order to take the chance with this other guy, even if he's in another town. here's how it is. if you're with a guy and you don't love him the way that he loves you, then you have to break it off, for the better of both of you, otherwise it could cause serious damage later on. you can't lead him on like that. but if you don't think its going to work with the other guy, then why mess with a good thing. its time to ante up and make a choice. do some soul searching, and decide on what your heart says.
2006-08-05 19:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel towards him like a friend then you don't need to be with him..you are going to hurt him regardless if he loves you. And why would he want to be with someone that screwed another guy? If you did that then you don't really care about his feelings to start with. Honestly in the end you don't deserve either of them.
2006-08-05 19:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol this is funny you have a bf and you screwed your best friend now you want your best friend but you dont want to hurt your bf lol drop them both all your going to do is hurt both of them
2006-08-05 19:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by ice c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, But i think you will lose them both. Dont play with them, get real, and deal with your current BF first. Dont be so needy.
2006-08-05 19:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 words...Jerry Springer Show.
2006-08-05 19:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT HIDE IT FROM YOUR BOYFRIEND AND LET THE OTHER GUY FADE OUT OF YOUR MEMORIES
2006-08-05 19:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by James R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋