how long should u wait until u re-enter a relationship?

Question

i've been out of a relationship for a month, and i've already met a new guy he's cool but is looking for a girlfriend, i kinda dont mind but just want some feed back..........

Answer 1

i mean as longs as u need to. if u feel like ur really interested in the guy then u should give him a chance. but it would be cool if u be friends with him first cuz u might jump into a relationship to early and don't really know him that much, and then when u do get to know him and hes not ur type, ur gonna feel bad! so it's best if ur his friend first and if things go really really well, then kick it up a natch. that's kinda wat happened to me recently. i got in a relationship to early and thought that i should have been friends first. so now we're friends!!

Answer 2

Girl, you gotta' let him know where you are. If you don't then your just a player and he'll think the same when you break it off. Don't lead him on, saying nothing and letting him assume what he wants is the same as straight up lying.

Tell him you need some time and be serious about it(with the looking into his eyes and all). If he's that into you he will bug you for this and that, when he starts to taper off is when you'll need to make up your mind...keep him on the "hook" but know that we get easily discouraged and need lots of attention.

I hope he doesn't get it somewhere else before you've made up your mind...he could be the one that got away...

Answer 3

Whenever you're comfortable with it really. If you find yourself missing something about your previous relationship then you're not ready and it can be a struggle to make things work with the new person. It took me about 7 months to completely recover from my last breakup, at least to where I no longer missed them and wished that we had stayed together. I'm sure this varies from person to person, but to have a truly healthy relationship the past must be resolved.