a girl from school likes me, but i dont want my wings cliped, and ideas?
2006-08-05 11:51:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, no matter what anyone else says, try to be nice about it!
Simply tell her in private and with great respect to her feelings that you are not interested in her in a romantic way and have no intention of entertaining a romantic relationship with her.
If she takes a personal offense, becomes pushy, mean, insolent, etc., and/or will not accept your answer, then you may wish to be more rigid, or even cool as the situation dictates.
2006-08-05 12:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest about it and try not to be too mean. But in the same breath, don't let her feel like there may be a shot later on, either. I would just say, "Sorry but I don't want a relationship right now and I'm sorry if that hurts you but wouldn't you rather me be honest with you than to lead you on? That is the truth and I'm sorry but I am not changing my mind. I hope we can still be friend [only if you really want to remain friends with her -- if not, don't say that as it will only give her hope]". Good luck.
2006-08-05 11:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by portjeff143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't think of her in that way, and you'd like it if you could just continue leaving your relationship at 'friends' only. That's the only way you'll have it. Let her know how much you value her friendship, and don't want to risk losing her in case things didn't work out as a couple...
2006-08-05 11:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass it round the school `rumor' crowds, and it will get back to her; that you're definitely not interested.
You've gotta be cruel to be kind!
That's just the way it is; when that kind of thing is not reciprocated!
2006-08-05 11:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that! You don't want your wings clipped until you meet the girl you want to marry and she's not it but that you're flattered, thank you.
2006-08-05 11:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straightforward.honesty is the best policy.She may get upset for she will end up appreciating that you are not like the rest, that you are different.
You'll end up with a friend not an enemy or a B***
good luck
2006-08-05 11:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by malaevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be frank in a very nice way to avoid hurting her feelings and get your point across. Or just tell her you are gay.
2006-08-05 11:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie. Be direct. Just say "I think you're a great person, and you have great qualities, but we would never work out."
She may be heartbroken, but honesty is best. Don't waste her time and yours.
2006-08-05 11:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by T-Bone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u don't like her the way she like's u and that u 2 can only be friends
2006-08-05 11:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know you think she is cute and cool even if you dont think that but tell her flat out you do not want a relationship
2006-08-05 11:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋