What are the different "bases" in dating? Me n my bf are debating over it, please be as specific as possible..
Also, I want to have a fun night with my boyfriend, that does not include sex, and something that doesnt cost alot of money, to help make our relationship close again, after being together 2 years and having busy lives we seem to drift apart..
2006-08-05 11:27:07 · 17 answers · asked by kristen4562 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that happens and it is good that you are recognizing it. Anyone can have a great time without having sex.
You don't have to spend a lot of money to go out on a date. Maybe have a quiet evening together at home. Fix a nice dinner, maybe even make it a candlelight dinner,watch a good movie together while cuddling.
Maybe enjoy a quiet walk in the park and talk to each other about what is going on in one another's lives sharing dreams, sharing your goals and wishes
Dating is just basically being together. Spending time with one another and that is important in any relationship and it is especially important in a marriage. Sometimes doubledates are great, for the most part, it should be just you and your partner
2006-08-05 11:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well i would have to say, actually first base is a handshake, second base is a hug, third base is a kiss, fourth base is making out, fifth base, is caressing of the sensitive areas, sixth is the removal of certain parts of clothing, 7th is the kissing of those parts or servicing, and finally after all the little details and procedures covered, and all the rule have been broken, the wonderful and glorious first experience of sex. Just short periodic kissing and hugs, i suggest u tell him not to touch u with his hands sexually, and keep the intimate moments on lock down. Theres nothing wrong with cuddling, but nothing should go near the private parts. As far as everything else, fair game, play ball!
2006-08-05 18:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by the sponge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure you two are on the same page. You don't want to go and lead him into thinking that you are ok with sex if you are not.
As far as I know,
1st base = kissing
2nd base = touchy-feeling of the naughty places
3rd base = the oral sex
home run = straight up humpin
But that is all just silly anyway.
I would stay in and make dinner and watch a movie and cuddle. Maybe go for a walk... That is cheap and nice.
2006-08-05 18:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st base-kissing,2nd base-copping a feel (breast)3rd base hand down the pants,Homeplate-getting laid. Go fishing,hikeing,stay in & rent a movie after a home cooked meal.Go for a walk holding hands. There's all kinds of things to do w/o spending alot of money.Communication is a good way to get the closeness back.Hope this helps.
2006-08-05 18:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by scott m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend often rent a movie and relax together. Since he's not crazy about movies, I try to take part in his hobbies - we enjoy working on bicycles together. We make a special dinner together.
Try gazing at the stars.. taking a walk around the park.. going on a picnic at the park.
A special night is nothing more than spending time solely with one another.
2006-08-05 18:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by Spiked Coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
base 1: kissing
base 2: touching
base 3: oral sex
base 4: sex
what i like to call the victory lap: orgy (some call it base 5)
have a romantic dinner and go dancing or see a movie. take a drive and just talk. have a picnic. be creative. make the day fun by adding little notes and maybe pictures of you or you and him, dropping them in little places you know he'll see them. whatever you do have fun!!
2006-08-05 18:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by musicislife1233 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so ppl put some pretty discusting and unnecary answers on here!!! nd for da record...first base is kissing, second is touching above the waist, third is below the waist...home run...duhhh...
but to answer ur question, i would just set up a nice romantic dinner with him...cook him his favorite meal nd have it on the floor (or table if u want) have candles nd romantic music...but tell him that there will b no sex because u think that u need to reconnect. hope it works out for u :)
2006-08-05 18:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Base : All the way
2006-08-05 18:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as i know for Bases... 1st is simply making out. 2nd is hands, under the clothes but not actually doing much besides feeling around. 3rd is like oral. and a home run is kinda self explanitory
2006-08-05 18:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by x_si_chick_x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go to the movies and just spend time together cuddling and having a good time.
2006-08-05 18:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋