my propose wife say no to sex before marriage,how do i know if she is not a commercial sex worker, all my efforts to take her to bed for the past 15 months proved arbortive, in this situation how do i avoid marrital mistake?
2006-08-05 11:25:55 · 30 answers · asked by Sir Joe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you a virgin?Does it matter if she is NOT one?What will change
2006-08-13 05:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy_DIAMOND 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has said no to sex before marriage and you weren't respectful of that and kept "trying" to get her into bed. So damned if she do damned if she don't, that's what you're saying. *shakes head* You can't have your cake and eat it too honey. Are you guys getting married now? Then once you get married, that will be the end of that. Why do you need a "test" to prove her virginity? Are you really just interested in bedding her than marrying her? I think this marriage is starting on the wrong foot if you are so focused on her virginity. She is sticking to her guns with you and you are not happy with it. Most virgins don't have an intact hymen anyway, some are not even BORN with one. I suggest you focus more on who she is as a person and whether you want her as your wife whether or not she sleeps with you before marriage or not. You sound very immature. If you don't trust her, don't marry her and do some growing up of your own. Grow up. If you're not a virgin, would you want this girl to dump you simply for that, to be held to the same standard and be looked at suspiciously, even if you loved this girl? Grow up and realize life (and love) is much more than a piece of skin tearing.
2006-08-13 10:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a virgin? If not, why do you care if she is. Maybe she is saving herself for a resaon other than being a virgin. Maybe she had a bad experience with men and just wants to wait. If you think you know her well enough to want to marry her, then I would hope that you know whether she is a "commercial sex worker" or not.
2006-08-13 10:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by reneelost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are YOU a virgin? And it's none of your business if she is or not! And just because she says no to you, that makes her a potential prostitute? What century do you live in? Maybe the problem is you, not her. You want her to be a virgin, and she refuses to sleep with you, so what's the problem - that should answer your question. Medical exam! She probably refuses because she's outraged at such an insulting suggestion.
A suggestion from me - join the current millenium, buddy.
2006-08-13 03:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you rather your wife be a virgin obviously...are you worried if she had multiple sex partners that you may not measure up? I assume you must be a Muslim man. Only the insecure man ask these types of questions. I would never want to marry a virgin man, I need him to now how to go "downtown baby"!
2006-08-13 11:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whjy does it matter whether or not she is a virgin. Are youa virgin? Sounds like you have been trying to pop her for 15 months. Also to me it would not matter if she was a pro, hopefully she would have more knowledge of what to do in bed. If you love her, how can it be a marital mistake.
2006-08-05 11:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting your time with someone like that, I go by the 3 strikes shes out life is too short for someone that wont give it up.And also If shes cold now she will be in the future the best sex is before marriage!!!
2006-08-13 11:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is indeed a virgin and wants to "save" it for marriage she will agree to a medical check, if not move on. If she loves you and wants to be your wife, then why not prove it with something as simple as a medical check for truth!
2006-08-05 11:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by K. C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that the only important thing for you her virginity how if shes telling you the truth maybe she just also want to know if you really love her or still marry her without sex first.
2006-08-13 08:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by lolipop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter if she's a virgin or not? Marriage is about the commitment you make to her that inspite of who she is you will love her. If you're not ready to do this then the best way to avoid mistake is to not marry her.
2006-08-13 05:09:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if a woman says she doesn't believe in sex before marriage than that's a good thing. Good chances are she doesn't have kids already, or stalkers, and she does have morals. It's her choice and if you continue to pressure her about it then you are liable to let her slip through your fingertips.
2006-08-13 08:20:26 · answer #11 · answered by semper_fidelus07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋