Good ?...Deep spirit thought needed to accomplish such a fete as well....I, thankfully have not experienced this, nor do I wish to. However, in keeping with my knowing of Who I Am, and that I am not the judge of the situation, and that that family member has rejoined others of love at Home, and that the person who did the killing must deal with the consequences of such, both legally & spiritually...I believe that after a short time of human-ness, my spirit would overcome, & yes, I would have to forgive & move on. It would be me, out of them all, who would demonstrate the knowing that I have so that others could be healed of their grief and anger--I know that I could be the one to bring back the smiles, the laughter, the loving...I am the Mom, so this I can do, and would be called to do of my own accord.
2006-08-05 11:31:46
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answered by msE758 3
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It is a sad but true reality that some families have to face this question. And yes, it is possible to fogive someone who kills a family member, but it is a very hard thing to do and may take some years. My heart goes out to all who face this situation.
2006-08-05 18:49:29
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answered by Ponderingwisdom 4
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Yes i would. I want you to know though it would be very hard. The reason we forgive other people is beacuase of this.
Ephesians 4:32 (New International Version)
32Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
2006-08-05 18:29:00
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answered by Rocking_4_Him 2
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My husband was stabbed to death. As time went by I guess there was some kind of forgiveness that settles in. But, I know the guy will serve his life sentence, all he can do is sit and rot, so that helps you forgive.
2006-08-05 18:31:10
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answered by ebertlove 3
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Could you?.. you're litttle girl, your wife you're mother your father your brother?? To live inbitterness the rest of your life or to live again knowing that they wouldn't want you to suffer torment over it. I'd want to find the****, lock away and throw the key personally.! I dont want to live in a wolrd with people like that.
My 12 year old said to me today (she watches bad girls..prison soap thing) they have a good life in there mum, thats not right..they seem to have fun, the tax payer pays for them to live if they behave they have treats they do there time and are let out, its easy for them in there.( I stood back in amazement when she said that) from the mouths of innocence eh!
hmmm..
An eye for an eye and all that & Forgiveness has Jamie Bulgers mum forgiven?
2006-08-05 23:51:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes. I am Christian and believe I must forgive all who have wronged me because I am forgiven.
2006-08-05 18:22:14
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answered by cucumberlarry1 6
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Yes, remember forgive me of my trespasses, as I forgive those who trespass against us
2006-08-05 18:30:00
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answered by mitchec725 2
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I'll leave it for God to forgive them, and do my best to make sure it happens asap.
2006-08-05 18:22:53
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answered by Anonymous
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to not forgive yourself or others is kinda like telling God, I don't believe what is written in his word. I is hard to fathum but you have to foregive those who have hurt you no matter how bad they may have hurt you
2006-08-05 18:33:06
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answered by sammyw1024 3
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Yes, because the murderer has already taken my loved one and I refuse to allow the murderer to take the emotional energy it would take to hate.
2006-08-05 20:29:05
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answered by firstyearbabyboomer 4
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