she just say to me that she hate me forever and i meant nothing to her anymore....we been together almost a year and suddenly this happened...i decide to let this relationship go..but can anyone tell me how to forget it so i wont feel so sad lost and down everyday..men you cant even understand what is the feeling when u get hurt by a person or cheated...i can feel that something sharp rub on my heart.... especially she is the one that u really love for more than anything.i really dont like this feeling..the worst thing is when u saw her hanging out with different guys or her ex....this is killing me..anyone can help me up any advice
2006-08-05 11:12:58 · 22 answers · asked by reyals 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes time. I'm really sorry. I don't think you'll ever forget. You can ease the pain, though, by moving on with your life. Give yourself a little time to grieve, then let it go and move on. I know it isn't easy because I've been there, but you have to. Start over. Maybe lay off the relationships for a while, give yourself some breathing room. Because that's really what you need, fresh air. I know how hard it is. You put everything into it, then out of the blue it's over for no real, apparent reason. I don't know what the situation was that made her decide to end it, but it doesn't really matter. Time heals, not all, but most wounds. Hope this helps.
2006-08-05 11:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Elaina 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I truly feel your pain. It sounds very similar to my own situation a couple years ago. However, you need to remember that there are many other girls out there that you can have a happy and successful relationship with. If you believed there is only one person meant for you, I bet you'd probably never find that person.
If you did, you would be extremely dependent on them. There's no doubt that there are many, many people you could be happily involved with. So, maybe knowing this might help lessen the pain and fear of never finding another special person.
It's going to hurt for a while - there's no getting around it. Try to fill your free time with friends, family and maybe some new hobbies. The pain will pass, but not right away - you're going through what is very similar to withdrawal symptoms from a drug.
Good luck.
2006-08-05 11:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Empire Jetty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth you never truly get over a great love especially if it is your first love. A part of you will always kind of be with them and it will always sting a little when you see them. Something that I found helps me is finding a new hobby (for me dance classes) or something new that you always wanted to try like a sport. Take it one day at a time. Try to take away pictures so they are not always so visable to you and constant reminders of your relationship. I am not saying get rid of them just put them away so you don't look at them every second. Hang out with your friends or even make a few new friends to help you keep your mind off it. Hope this helps
2006-08-05 11:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime a relationship ends, it will take time to heal. It hurts now, but everyday it gets easier. When I got divorced, I didn't think I was ever going to forget about my ex, but each day it got easier. Since she said that she hates you forever and you meant nothing to her, it sounds like you're the better person anyway. What would possess someone to say something so evil to someone? Put your chin up and KNOW you're the better person because you didn't have to say evil things to her to make you look good.
It will get better.
2006-08-05 11:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to you but if you truly loved her,you will never forget her. After some time you'll get over the grief...and it might be there awhile. And you'll move on to other female interests,but there will always be a tender spot in your heart for her.
Hang in there, it will a rough ride for awhile
2006-08-05 11:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by doggybag300 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been through that before, get involved with the hobbies that made you happy before you met her, try to avoid hanging out with people that still hang out with her and will remind you of her, you have your whole life ahead of you and you should start doing things for yourself, not for anybody else, eventually someone else will come around and make you forget all about her.
2006-08-05 11:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Rasalibre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy every minute, find an intense hobby that will fill up your time. I found genealogy myself. It's been 6 years since that happened to me, and none of the ladies I have been with since have even been comparable. The anguish will dull after time.
2006-08-05 11:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by texas_rocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never 'forget' them you'll always have the memories, but you can move on..
it'll take some time, I'm sure, but there's another girl out there for you!
if you need to talk you can email me anytime... I'm a very good listener and I love talking to people...
plus - it's always good talking to people when you feel down!
if you want email me at lil_babeegurl_2004@yahoo.com
2006-08-05 11:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the person that is really loved never forgets if she cannot forget then she makes a rinconcito (or the small place) in her heart, place in a corner of her memory and continue with her life
saludos!!!
2006-08-05 16:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by ROBER MIRANDA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been waiting for over 20 years to get over the true love of my life. Does that give you an idea?
2006-08-05 11:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by chrissy123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋