This is my 2nd time asking..I really need a man's point of view
My wife lied,she told me she could never get pregnant..Now she is three months pregnant?
My wife lied,she told me she could never get pregnant(she said she had a Hysterectomy) ..now she is 3 months pregnant?
Thats one of the reasons i married her She knew I did not want kids ever and she agreed ..now she wont get rid of it.What can i do???????????......can I Sue her to get rid of it
I have three pitbull dog's ,They are my children .they are not too friendly with children .Can you beleve it....My wife has the nerve to ask me to get rid of my boy's(the dogs) What kind of mother would she make if you can just throw out part of your famiy members (the dogs)Should we seperate.or is there any legal action i can take.
How can i ever trust her again?
2006-08-05 10:54:14 · 17 answers · asked by WomanCandy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Leave the lying b*tch. Let her have her miserable children. Just leave. Your dogs are your children and nobody can change that. My dog is my child, and so is my son. No matter what anybody says, I do NOT love my son more. I love my son and my dog the same but in different ways.
She's a liar, leave her. You can't force her to have an abortion. I wish you could. I would hate to be in your shoes. The best thing to do is leave. If you ever go to court, You won't have to pay for child support because she lied, and you don't want kids.
Don't worry, you're safe.
2006-08-05 12:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Stella 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well, separation is one avenue. Now are you sure that she did not just have her tubes tied, because that can naturally reverse itself. If she had a Hysterectomy, there is no know documentation of that naturally reversing itself, and then she lied. If she lied, do you really want to be with that type of person, probably not. You can do nothing to make her get rid of the child. You can, after the child is born (after a divorce) sign away your rights to that child, but you'll more than likely still be financially responsible. You may find, however, that once the child is born that you are overwhelmed with love for the child once it comes into this world. My sister did not want children, and when her son was born, she has never loved anything as much as she did her little boy. It is possible that your perspective might change during the event of the child's birth, the first time it holds your finger, or the first time the child smiles at you. Just something to think about.
2006-08-05 18:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm sorry I am a woman but I have to answer you. I agree you should consult with a lawyer to find out your options. I do not think that you can "make" her have an abortion but you may have some legal action in this. I am very sorry that she lied to you. That is a BIG deal. I mean a some lies can be dealt with but this one is unforgivable in my book. That is just like a husband saying he had a vasectomy but really didn't. I think divorce is a good option. I agree with you about the dogs. I have children and I feel not quite as close to my dogs as my children but I think before I had kids I felt that love for my dogs. I know that sounds strange but it's true. I am very sorry for you and I hope that you can find a way to resolve this situation. Good Luck.
2006-08-05 20:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by cristons_mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, and I am answering your question whether you like it or not. Even if she told you she couldn't get pregnant you should have both used protection, if you say your wife has the nerve to ask you to get rid of your dogs how can you ask her to get rid of your child? Children are way more important that dogs. One thing you should know about woman we can get anything we want, all we have to do is show a little leg. But on a serious note she had no right to lie to you and yeah how will you evertrust her again?
2006-08-05 18:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by Pink Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot possibly compare dogs to children! I wouldn't try to get rid of your dogs, but I wouldn't call them my "children". That's absurd.
And as for the other part of your question, it seems to me that you're afraid to be a father (to a real human child). Don't worry. You'll be fine.
Now, I do agree that if your wife lied to you about this, she could lie about anything else, too.
2006-08-05 17:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude....she is your wife....dogs are dogs....Dogs don't last forever. They die sooner or later. I would go with the wife and get rid of the dogs and if you and her agreed not to have kids then try to put it up for adoption when it is born. I would let her have the child and then you put it up for adoption. NEVER HAVE A ABORTION it is a human being and it is like commiting murder. And you should never do it. My idea is let her have the kid and let her think about putting it up for adoption and then if she doesn't consider getting rid of the dogs. THEY ARE JUST DOGS!!!!
2006-08-05 18:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by J-Wiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I have to answer you.......I am a woman and I can honestly say that any one who could do that to their spouse is wrong. I would say that she can not be trusted. Trust is the main thing to have in a marriage. She lied to you about something you were very serious about, and children are a very serious subject. I would seek a lawyer to find out if there is anything you can do. I would definitly seperate. sorry about your situation....and for being a woman answering you.!! GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-05 18:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by ape0402 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok for one she NEVER should of lied to you that is so dam wrong of her and for 2 no you can not sue her for her to get rid of the baby it is her choise and that is just so messed up i understand you never wanted kids but to tell you the truth there the best thing that could ever happen to someone and i am sorry but she needs to divorse your *** for wanting her to get rid of that baby who had no choice in being made. go and get your **** cut off and no more worries about haveing another baby and have fun paying child supposr tand reamber if you don't have fun in jail at least you know them guys can't get preg
2006-08-05 18:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really seriously against having your child you should separate You can't force her to have an abortion you have no rights in this case.You are going to be forced to pay child support if she pushes it.You might consider getting a vasectomy to prevent this from happening again.
2006-08-05 18:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a guy but i have to tell you legally you have no standing to force her to abort a seperation is up to you but it may make you look like a dead beat however i would not get rid of my dogs and i am pregnant
2006-08-05 17:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by little bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋