my sister treats my mom like a dog but yet my mom is alaways doing for her and i alaways get ignored what can i do
2006-08-05 10:49:34 · 13 answers · asked by lori77562 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i am sorry to hear that....be the best person u can be regaurdless of how your sister acts...it will pay off. good luck
2006-08-05 10:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by who be boo? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only being ignored because your mom feels trust in you. I am sure your mom loves you very much, and your sister is acting out to try to get the lion's share of attention. Can you talk to your mom quietly and completely privately some time and tell her how you feel? Without being accusatory towards your mom or sister let your mom know that you realize how difficult your sister is being. Tell her you feel a little left out and neglected now, and ask your mom gently if it is really going to help your sister in the long run to give in to her so much, especially since she is showing a lack of respect. It sounds like she needs a hard lesson. Let your mom know that you support her in every way.
I don't know why this happens in some families. Sometimes I think it is because one sister was very weak and vulnerable at an early age or suffered some trauma, that you might not even be aware of. The problem after a while is that this child will become demanding, willful and sometimes deceitful. It's wonderful that you seem to understand so much. Are you the older sister?
2006-08-05 18:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this will be hard for you to do, but just be patient. There may be some things going on that you're not aware of. Sooner or later, your time will come. Love and cherish your mother, and she will notice you in time. Best of luck!
2006-08-05 17:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relocate
2006-08-05 17:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Puppy Zwolle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scream your dismay in front of your mom and sister. Let it all out, tell them exactly whats happening between them and between you and them. If they don't listen, lock yourself in your room. If things don't change, then repeat one more time the next time they tick you off.
2006-08-05 17:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by mulderlx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older sister seems like she is getting more attention because she is ...but maybe because she is demanding it...You are younger and it makes you think you are just ignored but your turn is coming...........just learn what not to do from your older sister............
2006-08-05 17:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds exactally how it use to be for me, but then she moved away, and I found a wonerful guy and moved out, got married to him, then I didnt have to think of it of see it anymore...but thats just me
2006-08-05 17:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by francis2u4now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can
if u want that she will be nice be the boss make her do things instead of Ur mom scream and throw her to the flower to do it instead of Ur mom
2006-08-05 18:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talkting to your sister calmly about the problem and try to tell her that you do not agree with your sister about the way she treats your mom.
2006-08-05 17:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up
2006-08-05 17:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by candl91402 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋