i really really really want my boyfriend to kiss me, i don't want to have to make the first move. He says he wants to, How can i 'persuade' him to make the first move?
2006-08-05 10:48:07 · 36 answers · asked by Vielex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why the h*ll won't he?
here I'll kiss you......(mmmmmsmack!) .....better
2006-08-05 10:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to persuade him to make the first move, you're technically making the first move. Just go for it! It doesn't matter who kisses who first!
2006-08-05 10:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is not full of problems if that is your problem. Just step up to the plate and do it. Don't worry about who goes first, especially if he's already told you he wants to! Trust me, once you get past the first time, he won't be able to wait to move first next time!
2006-08-05 11:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go for it just as much as he does. Guys are afraid to make the first move because if it goes wrong, and the girl doesn't like it. It could lead to a fight or break up. Girls have to do more, most of the time.
2006-08-05 10:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by nctarheels1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait on him! do it please! he is probably counting on it, thats half the reason my girl broke up with me, because for some obscure reason I had inhibitions about making the first move / how to do it with this girl?/does she want me to?/ is it the right moment. Sure if you give it long enough he might but then he might not and it can get awkward. There is no shame in doing it.
OR
Better yet, ask him to kiss you - that is your best bet.
2006-08-05 10:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to and doesn't maybe you should make the first move
2006-08-05 10:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Your life really isn't worth living anymore, is it!!!??
Uh!? First, adjust the drama knob to the "off" position.
Try telling your boyfriend one time what your expectations are....and not making such a big deal over it.....Be patient and see what happens.......Good luck. Enjoy life!
2006-08-05 10:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants it 2 be special. Make him work for it!If he said he wants 2 than let him do it when he feels it is the right time.
2006-08-05 10:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Tamara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him the way with body movement, showing is better than telling him, always known actions speak louder than words, if he doesnt then he really aint ready and sorry but you would have to wait
2006-08-05 10:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jc02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force him to make the first move. Besides, why wait for him to do it? You should do it b/c he may be unsure if you want him to or not.
2006-08-05 10:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't persuade him. let him kiss you when he is ready, i feel he is either shy or is not ready yet. don't be over aggressive it may scare him away. let it happen naturally , go with the flow. it will be so much nicer and sweeter if you do.and have more true meaning .
2006-08-05 11:05:07 · answer #11 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋