2006-08-05 10:40:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The reason why gay people (in general, and definitely including myself) feel they are born gay is because of the following reasons:
1) Nobody I know of would WANT to be hated by people for something like that, and yet they are in a group that is whether they like it or not
2) Many of us tried to deny it, change, turn away from it, give up on it, or even kill ourselves to avoid it, but in the end, it was still part of us
3) Most of us just started feeling towards people of the same gender, dispite the fact that we had been told all our lives that it was "wrong" by religious groups, media, family, friends, etc.
4) I would also like to clarify: Not EVERY gay person feels that they were born gay. Saying such a thing is preposterous, mainly because at any given time there is at least 1 person who feels gay, but still is living with the mindset they were taught that "it is a choice, it is a sin, it is immoral, it is wrong" and have yet to realize that they weren't the ones who chose that life.
Hope this helps.
Aloha,
David
2006-08-06 10:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by Zack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It’s not the matter of whether or not you are. It’s whether or not you want to be. I choose not to be gay. . Those who are choose to be gay. That’s everyone’s own decision. No one is 'born gay'. That’s as false as can be. I’ll find some research on it later, but heres a step by step reason as to why it can’t be possible
Its a sin to be gay
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'God is love' and cares for everyone.
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God would not make a law people cant keep, its not of his kind nature
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God knows us better than we do. He knows we can keep the law to not be gay.
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so god isn't about to make a law just to spite those who suposively 'have to be gay, and have no choice about it. hes a loving god that would never do that to his people. that’s almost as bad as saying he burns people in a torturous hell. its offensive to god, and makes him sound evil, which he surely is not. so gays arnt born that way, its all psychological.
the bible clearly says up and down how it is wrong and improper. people who are gay, and have relations with the same sex disgust me in that regard. I could never imagine even touching another man....eh.... and no one is gay because they 'are born like it' that’s a complete miss conception given off by gays to let themselves and others think it's right. Sorry if i'm offending any gays, but i’m merely stating the facts and what the bible says about the matter.
2006-08-05 17:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe gay people ARE born that way. Do you think anyone would choose to live a homosexual lifestyle knowing they would be persecuted by the entire world? I DON'T CARE how they became gay, they are HUMAN BEINGS and deserve to be treated like any other human!
2006-08-05 17:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because they want to believe they were born gay!!!
2006-08-05 17:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Chi_Indy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuals are born heterosexuals but when they grow up they make a choice if they want to convert their sexual orientation or if they experience homosexual propaganda. Same thing when a child is adopted by homosexual parents, that child will experience homosexual and when he/she grows up, they become homosexual or bisexual. No person was born with homosexual genes or do they and it is just like smoking or drinking at a young age to become a smoker or a drunk
2006-08-05 17:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ramon R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they were. I'm bi, and I know that I didnt choose to be. I know I was born this way.
Geez, some people on here need to grow up.
2006-08-05 18:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by jiroh_sleepysheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they have to make an excuse for why they or doing disgusting things with people of the same sex and if they say they were born that way ,they think in their mind its OK,and they have a argument for others that object,that God made me this way...........bull
2006-08-05 17:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by purpleaura1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To try to justify they're lifestlye in court.
the Genes in DNA doesn't cut it.
the gay factor is in the Levy* Jeans not DNA Genes.
2006-08-05 17:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually that is not true, no one is gay when they are born, they choose to be!
2006-08-05 17:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by HaiHai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a nice, non-accusatory position. No one's at fault, except maybe God, and so it's easy to pretend it is so. Of course, research suggests they could blame their earthly fathers, but that's not nice.
2006-08-05 17:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋