My boyfriends friends make fun of me because I`m not American, I`m Chinese. How do I stop them with out murdering them?
2006-08-05 10:28:01 · 33 answers · asked by ♥MeMeAnn♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for the record chinese girls are hot but to answer your question just ignore them once they see that it doesnt bother you they'll get bored and stop
2006-08-05 10:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by osirissk8rboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is to tell your Boyfriend how you feel about his friends making fun of you because you are not American. If he have tacit endorse this behavior in a subtle way, let him know that he have to tell them to stop.
If there is no change, there is no need to stay in a relationship with some one that don't want to stand up and be a man; by telling his friends how he feel about you and to get them to stop. They have to respect your race as well as your Chinese culture; for in the end it is what comes out of a person that we can judge them by and not by their race at all.
2006-08-05 10:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend should tell them that this isn't fun. If he doesn't do that : leave him for not standing up for you or murder those friends.
I'm a Chinese myself from Singapore. A final alternative is to bring those friends here. I'll arrange a lot of Chinese for you who make loads of fun of them. Might teach them some lesson :)
2006-08-05 10:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if you are a Chinese !! I don't think you are a shame of been a Chinese.. We are all humans !! if you feel hurt by him making fun of you. ask him to stop !!! A boyfriend is a person whom , you can count on to be by your side.. A special person.. If he don't stop, he is just using you...
2006-08-05 10:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an odd thing to make fun of someone over.
Tell them to grow up and tell your boyfriend that his friends are idiots.
2006-08-05 10:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your boyfriend letting his friends make fun of you. It sounds like you need a new boyfriend if he's not willing to stand up for you.
2006-08-05 10:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kill them in a dark alley. No one will know. Then, tell their parents that they went traveling to someplace far away and they won't come back for a long time. See? No one will know a thing. Besides, it will make the world population smaller, so we won't use as much resources.
2006-08-05 10:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by xinnybuxlrie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah killing them would be the easiest route if you're wanting to go to prison. But if you really love your boyfriend and he loves you then you should confront him. Tell him how you feel and if he really wants you and doesn't care what his friends think he'll either tell them or he will just tell them to get lost and leave you and him alone.
2006-08-05 10:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your boyfriend it bothers you. Also, they might just be doing it because they know they'll get a reaction. If you ignore them, (or really suprise them and laugh with them) they'll probably stop. Boys are so stupid.
2006-08-05 10:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason they do it is because they like you and they are boys who aren't creative enough to make intelligent conversation.
Laugh with them for a few weeks and they will stop.
2006-08-05 10:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋