like if i asked them "Do you wanna come in and watch a movie?" does that mean the guy is thinking sex city instead of a movie?
2006-08-05 10:13:09 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, obviously unless you just wanna tease him otherwise why bother to invite?
2006-08-05 10:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by prawn_headed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young, stupid or selfish ones do, yes. And since there are many of them out there (many women like that, too) it's best to make sure the guy you're with is none of the above or that there is no misunderstanding. Also, in defense of guys, a lot of women have that in mind if they invite a guy in. My current wife invited me in for a movie, in fact, and she was thinking sex while I was not getting ahead of things (first date, after all) and thinking movie... Well, that was 13 yrs ago.. hehe So anyway, be careful about inviting people into your home and try to make sure there is a real understanding between the two of you. Also, don't mention it's a possibility, because he might take that to mean "yes, but I don't want to come straight out and say it".. ok? anyway, be careful and hope this helped.
2006-08-05 10:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most, if not all guys do. It depends on how the date goes and if you sent him any "signals" or if he thought you did. If the guy seems like a, lets just say, that type of an out-going person, then expect it. It also depends on how you convay yourself.
If you wanted to invite him over try to talk about the fact that you don't like to have sex on first dates. Something like that. If he's a guy that you would want to hang out with again, he will understand. You have to understand that guys are different and I don't know any guy that wouldn't want to have sex on the first date. The girl that I'm engaged to now, I had to wait the longest I've ever waited.
2006-08-05 10:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. Just to be safe, I probably wouldn't ask them in if you think you're still pretty far away from feeling comfortable getting physical with them in some way. Especially if you live alone. If you have roommates or family there, then it feels more like a casual hang-out. Of course, there is no reason why you should feel pressured to go further than you want. Ever. But you might want to make it clear that you're not ready before inviting him over, because it's easy to get that impression. Good luck! Have fun.
2006-08-05 10:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. If it's really late and you two have already been out for a while there more of a chance he'll think that, but if you two are planning something and you say he can come over and watch a flick less likely.
Most guys will probably HOPE but not assume, otherwise be dissappointed.
2006-08-05 10:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means the guy is thinking sex after the movie.
2006-08-05 10:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys expected sex when you said yes to the date in the first place. Be extremely clear about your expectations, and, like well-trained dogs, we will heel, roll over, and perhaps even lick your face. If you'd rather we didn't jump on the furniture, sniff in embarassing places, and do unspeakable things to your leg, a gentle swat on the nose with a rolled-up newspaper should suffice.
2006-08-05 10:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by L.L. Cool Bean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is safe to say that "yes" they are thinking about sex, and expecting it. No one says you have to live up to their expectations in that regard. Give him something to look forward to by making out, but withholding sex for a while. Sometimes women do not understand the power that they have over men. Give him a few little tastes before he gets the whole pie!!!
2006-08-05 10:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by perfectprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is always in the back of a man's mind no matter what. it's in there nature. But if he is a respectable guy, he will do whatever you are comfortable with. Watch a movie, cuddle, or whatever. When I first met my boyfriend,..he wanted to real bad but had respect for me so he waited. why am I answering for you men?? Maybe i have no clue.
2006-08-05 10:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by merivel7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely can send the wrong signals but if you convey CLEARLY what's going on, then you shouldn't have a problem. Also the sex question shouldn't be an issue if your already going solid with a guy for a while.
2006-08-05 10:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by Richie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say but yes they do. Unfortunately in this world today most guys think with their little heads instead of their big ones.
2006-08-05 10:19:43 · answer #11 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋