I met this girl and we got along real well. she lives kinda far (like 60 miles away). I havent got my permit yet. Im really sad because everyone went back to their home town today including me. I wanna see her so bad. I havent been able to stop crying (seriously). I cant take it anymore. I have her #, but wont it bad to call her the same day we just said bye? Help me. Im really getting depressed.
2006-08-05 10:08:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Im 16 yrs old
2006-08-05 10:13:48 · update #1
Dont call me a chump fagit
2006-08-05 10:18:42 · update #2
pick yourself up and call her tomo. You cant sound too desperate for her because its your job to be the strong one while your away. 60 miles isnt that far. Just keep in contact for now if you really like her and she'll do the same if she likes you as much.
2006-08-05 10:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by buK00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is more a love/romance question than a spiritual one but love is from God ....so based on that... remember the shortest verse in the Bible?
Jesus wept - yeah it's a different topic but if Jesus can cry - why can't I? Why can't you?
Enjoy your cry as it means you care about someone. Nothing wrong with that. Also nothing wrong with missing her. We all miss the ones we love when we are apart.
Then when you done, at least for the moment, stand up get a soda or glass of water and think about what you would like to say to her, maybe even have a check list of sorts as a prompter.
Dang it boy - She did give you her number after all - so she is expecting to hear from you.
Whether you call today or tomorrow or the next day, start off with something funny like - hey your voice sounds just as good on the phone as it does in person.
Most gals like it if you miss them but don't want "their guy" to be wimpy/whiny about it.
Enjoy the fact you miss her, then put yourself back on your feet and be the hot/sweet guy she gave her number too.
My nephew hit me in the arm when I gave him similar advise, but he later told me it worked. ...just tweak it, so it's you.
Take care
2006-08-05 17:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by charlie_2you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her sometime soon and let her know you've been thinking of her. Maybe you could talk about making plans to visit her in her town and just hang out together for the day and getting to know her better.
Maybe after that you'll see what kind of person she is and if it was as serious for her as it is with you.
Maybe she has an email so you could keep in touch easier.
2006-08-05 17:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by mr_mister1983 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call her and tell her how you feel! she might even feel the same way! and if she does then you should set up a time when you can both meet up some where, then when you see her............. make sure you show you really care and be sure to kiss her or hug her before she leaves...... if she likes it then there you go, but if she smacks you or something then make sure you say you were wrong to move so fast and oppoligize.
2006-08-05 17:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by HaiHai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you call her? Or wait until tomorrow. You shouldn't make more of this than it is. You are young still and don't have the perspective you need to understand the relative importance of each interaction.
2006-08-05 17:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and call her and tell her how you feel...its good to be open-it means you trust her-I met someone at a Christian camp and have been missing him too. Its been about a week.
2006-08-05 17:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by A unique individual 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her.
2006-08-05 17:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by Linda T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her you have it bad, anyway she's probably wondering why hasn't he called!
2006-08-05 17:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by g-day mate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah call her crying and shell think your a weeny.......nice plan chump
2006-08-05 17:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mikey S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her tomorrow.
2006-08-05 17:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Red neck 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋