If they are in our life - fine, if they're not - that can be great too!! Better out, if they bring with them cheating, lies, and games!!!! Are any men available that can be happy with just one woman, want to communicate, and don't mind sharing their true feelings???
2006-08-05 10:01:55 · 37 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boys make great pets, every girl should have one, lol.
Seriously, though.Someway, males know, instinctively, that their odds of a long life are better with a life mate. For most that's a female.
There are plenty of good guys out there, I happen to have one.
Bars and parties are not a good place to look, because booze clouds your judgement and his. I met my bf through family, he is my brother-in-law's cousin (my brother-in-law happens to be a great guy as well).
And not to be a traitor to my gender or anything...but the lies, cheating and games door swings both ways.
Most men are not taught to share their feelings, they are supposed to suck it up and take it. That's a lot of conditioning for them to overcome. Most don't, but a few do. Finding one, now there's the challenge.
2006-08-05 10:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Gaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you for most guys, but obviously not all guys are like that. Most unfortunately are not secure in themselves to admit to true feelings of intimacy because they're afraid of where the consequences might lead. God forbid you could spend your life happy with one woman. As for myself, being an articulate guy, with a sense of humor, knowing how to cook and clean and advancing through life progressively doesn't mean much when I go out and know that I'm not built or as good looking as most of the guys I see, and normally barely get a chance to get my foot in the door. Maybe if women were a tad less judgmental, a lot of cheating and lying wouldn't exist in relationships, but what do I know?
2006-08-05 10:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by Richie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good man is okay, but it is better to have no man than a bad man. We as women can choose to live alone and do our own thing and enjoy our family and friends and do what we want. Some men are able to stay with one woman, but not all you might try dating a variety of men of different religions and cultures and you will see.
2006-08-05 10:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are not the same, if I thought that way about women because I got burnt (which I have, more than once.),then I wouldn't presently be happily married.I've never cheated on anyone I've ever dated or been married to-never will.I'm 10 yrs. married & going strong!!!!!I wish you good luck in the future,just make your choises a little wiser as hard as that will be!
2006-08-05 10:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by scott m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go thru your life trying to figure it out, you'll end up psychotic like me. They don't have the ability to evolve into rational, honest, emotional creatures. Most of the time they lie because its easier to think, and most of all they think they are all great and powerful. And the more they mess with you, it becomes an addiction, they can't stop, so the more you take their sh#t, the more they'll give it.
2006-08-05 10:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men have always thought that we cant do without them but truth is the only thing we need them for is to have babys and now you can do that anymore with out them they call them test tube babies and theres always adoption but you really do have to have a man if you want your own baby . and thats about it we can bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan. and clean up the mess to boot and theres a whole lot less mess if theres not a man around the house..
2006-08-05 10:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of good guys out there , the problem is women going to clubs and bars and expecting to find a good man . anyhow if men were not here there would be millions of unopen pickle jars through out the world , and not to mention all the car wrecks out there if there weren't men supervising
2006-08-05 10:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need us and we don't need you. But, once in awhile two people get lucky and it actually works. Hopefully this will happen for you eventually.
There are a few of us but to be happy with one woman, she has to be the right one. Good luck.
2006-08-05 10:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you that's how I'm feeling right now read my questions but anyways. Before i got my boyfriend i didn't want to get involved with anyone cause i know it means trouble , jealousy , its like you have a huge responsibility, like a pet and you gotta protect yourself from getting hurt. There some guys like that out there from what you mentioned but of course they also have there bad side
2006-08-05 10:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women without men in their lives. Thats stange.
women were made for men and men for women.
that was the original plan i think.
both ways if ur without a mate u get pretty frustrated over time.
2006-08-05 10:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Tetragrammaton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋