I was drunk and i txtd this girl who is my FRIEND. And said do u wanna go out together. She said yes and i dont like her THAT way. Wen i said i never said that. She dosent belive that i was drunk and just wanted to hurt her feelings. HELP!!!
2006-08-05 10:00:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S im only 12 and i was mega mega mega drunk
2006-08-05 10:10:27 · update #1
Try the truth that usually works. You could also give it a try a date, or try to get one of your friends to go out with her. If not then forget about it.
Are you actually 12??, where did you get all the booze?
2006-08-13 03:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be drinking at your age! This situation was self inflicted so i have no sympathy for you. We've all done and said silly things when we've been drunk, TRUST ME i know the feeling! Well you've told her the truth, just TRY and carry on as normal. Say to her that you don't remember saying any of it and appolagise for anything you said that night. There should be nothing she can do, i mean she can't strap you down can she.
We often speak the truth when we're drunk so maybe you do like her?
;-)
2006-08-05 11:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what on earth were you doing getting mega drunk? Bet your parents have no idea what you get up to.
Just explain that you are too young to be going out with girls and that you just want to be her friend. Go and kick a football around instead and have a game on your play station and stop trying to be a grown up.
2006-08-13 03:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so your 12.... lots of things run through your mind...
Well...just tell her that you dont feel that way about her, it's as simple as that, Sure she probably won't believe you but shes gunna have to face up to it one day
And advice for the future, if you have a feeling your gunna get drunk or something along those lines, turn off your phone and put it in a draw, somewhere out of sight, so then you wont even think about picking it up and doing the same mistakes again
Good luck =)
2006-08-11 05:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality is that your friend probably already had feelings for you and your txt only made her feel that they were reciprocated. That would explain why she is so upset about the whole situation. You need to talk with her and really you need to eat a bit of humble pie because you obviously hurt her feelings, whether you knew/wanted to or not. She'll come round, just give her time and make sure you don't send her any more messages that might confuse or upset her xx
2006-08-05 10:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange question should a 12 yr old be drunk? Anyway what you said to her you shouldnt have said because she has now got her hopes up and thinks you like her but your playing her around.
You should have just said that you have changed your mind because you just wanna be friends and you think going out together would compremise that.
You need to go and see her and tell her either exactly what happened or tell her you just wanna be friends either way she is going to be hurt but at least then she will know
2006-08-10 23:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Natalie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wao ! you are ahead of time. At the age of 12 you are getting drunk and going out with a girl together. Either it is a made up story or you must be crazy !
2006-08-11 07:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't believe that you were drunk, then tell her how you really feel. Say that I'm sorry, but I just don't have feelings for you...etc. Convincing her that you were drunk is not the point, the point is that you are going out with someone who you have no feelings for, so use that as your fuel.
2006-08-05 10:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by whatev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world where you have to take responsibility for your actions and face the consequences.
I'm not even going to get into the whole "12 years old and drunk" thing - that's just so wrong.
You do not jump on people's emotions like that. I doubt you have learned your lesson but if she starts disrespecting you to everyone at school, you cannot say that you didn't deserve it...
2006-08-12 22:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by Rob K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk at 12, nice one! You'll have a fatty liver by the time you're 20.
2006-08-12 07:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋