me and my man have bin going out for 6 months, he is so nice and sweet and careing, but I think it is time I tell him I want to see other people, but I am also scared because he is getting ready to go to Iraq and every night he tells me how much he loves me, I love him to but I just have this filling something is going to go wrong. should I tell him how I feel or stay w/ him, I dont know what to do because I love him but like I said I have this filling and you cant always trust you instincts.
2006-08-05 09:54:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be open and honest with him. You are just not that in to him. If you truly were, this would not be something to discuss. Definetely spare him the misery while he is away, and do it before he leaves. Do not lead him on, because he will not be able to concentrate on anything while he is there but you. He is headed for a treacherous and miserable time over there, and you do not need to make it worse by deceiving him, making him believe you care in a way that you are unable to do so. You are smart in recognizing your feelings, and should simply tell him the truth. This will give you both the opportunity to find the person that is right for each of you.
2006-08-05 10:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 3 · 9⤊ 2⤋
You need to tell him now.
Tell you will be there for him so he knows that he can come back and have a friend. Some guys go over there with a girlfriend/wife/finace and they have ended the relationship. Sometimes the men hurt themselves because their heart is broken.
Say to him how you feel. Tell him you arent ready to take the next step, but you want to be in a friendship with him to make you two stronger.
2006-08-05 17:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with him for now when he goes to iraq that will give you time away from each other see how you feel if you still feel the same way tell him
2006-08-05 17:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the last thing u wanna do now...u never know that guy could land up there and do some serious damage.
I suggest u carry on with ur life and tell him once he returns.
2006-08-05 17:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tetragrammaton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you "feel" something is wrong then just tell him. why would you want to keep going if your gonna mess up? that would be a waste of time and breath.
2006-08-05 16:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jacob D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him NOW. if you let him go without you telling him you are a coward and you're only letting him suffer. TELL HIM.
2006-08-05 16:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋