If you are single and sleeping with someone that you know is seeing someone else, is this your problem? or his?
Not that i am, we were in the pub talking about it... and the answers were a bit split!
2006-08-05 09:45:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shouldn't be anyones problem.
2006-08-05 09:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 7⤋
the way i c it is this: if you know that the person you are sleeping with is involved with someone else, then both parties are equally to blame. If you didn't know they were taken when the affair started then you aren't to blame, however, if you continued the affair after you found out, then again, both to blame.
The only one that ends up hurt in a situation like this is the mans partner, that's who I feel for in these kinda situations
2006-08-05 16:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all both are to blame and both should realize what they are doing to the mans partner. It is not fair for this to happen to her. That is sooo selfish and wrong to hurt someone like that. If the man is not happy with who he is with he needs to end it, NOT CHEAT! The Girl is probably going to end up getting hurt the same way when she falls in love by her man cheating so she will know how it feels. That is so wrong!!!
2006-08-05 17:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong for both people to do it, when they know that someone else is going to get hurt as a result of their actions.
2006-08-05 16:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are not being true to urself
and ur man is not being true to u
if he loves u that much he will stick with u and not go to the other woman
so that shd let u know he might change his mind about u
i suggest go get ur own and dont let the man sugar coat ur ears
2006-08-05 16:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by maku d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't dream of breaking up another marriage nor would I date someone who is in a serious relationship.
2006-08-05 16:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well id say mine for,putting up with it in the first place,,, but it takes 2 to tango,,,?
2006-08-05 17:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by madmarie666@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both.
His for being a dirty cheating rat!
Hers for not having the self respect to know they deserve better than a dirty cheating rat!
2006-08-05 17:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ah! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done this years ago and would never do it again. It is just mean. If he does not want her anymore he should tell her so she can go have some fun too.
2006-08-05 16:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yours.
If it were your man, wouldn't you want another woman to have enough respect for you to back off?
2006-08-05 16:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. You are shameful because you are settling for used goods and him for cheating on his woman.
2006-08-05 16:51:54 · answer #11 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋