This guy I am talking to says he wants to be friends he doesn't want to date right now? He has been in bad relationships. Most guys would be like yea lets' go out beacause I get that alot.. So what do I do just go with the flow? Or what
2006-08-05 09:27:09 · 41 answers · asked by whiteroses202004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-05 09:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by leinervh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-08 15:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said "just friends." What would that mean to you if a girl said it? It doesn't mean anything different when a guy says it. Maybe he'd let you be a booty call if you tried reeeeeally hard and he was feeling desperate. Come on! You know what it means! Do you really want somebody deluded to tell you that it actually means that he loves you forever and wants to make babies with you? Skip him! If he wants to call, he'll call. Otherwise, you gotta go find somebody else because you're worth more than waiting around for some guy who said he doesn't like you. Take a class, find a hobby or something. Keep yourself occupied and don't try to force a relationship--you'll be happier when the right thing comes along.
2006-08-05 09:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically the 'I don't want to be in a relationship right now' thing is a manner of rejection that hopefully won't hurt the target's feelings.
There is little or nothing you can do to get this guy interested regardless of what it is that's actually holding him back. You seemed to suggest that it's easy for you to get dates so that's what I recommend. Finding a new guy will get your mind off of this one, and who knows? Maybe seeing you with someone else is just what this guy needs to realize what he's missing. However, that's not terribly likely so don't set your heart on it.
2006-08-05 09:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by du_robot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should go with the flow because that's called respecting his wishes. He says he's been in bad relationships and when that happens you tend to have second thoughts on future relationships just thinking of your past. Just give him some time and continue to be there for him if you want to be with him. Show him that your nothing like those other girls and you dare to be different.
2006-08-05 09:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say, but he's just not that in to you. No matter how bad his previous relationships were, if you were the "one", you would be making him forget all the past. It's nothing to do with you though. It's all him. He is probably still grieving over his past, or simply doesn't want to commit to anything, in case "something better comes along". You should just live your life for yourself, and not concern yourself with his baggage. If he needs to talk, by all means be his friend and listen. We all need someone to share things with. But be open and honest, and expect that you may hear things you won't like to listen to. Open yourself to dating other people, and be casual. You will know when the right one comes along, as he will move heaven and earth to be with you.
2006-08-05 09:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically it means your really close to him like family...
Some people are just really close people and some people are dating material....
You may be both but that person really trusts you and feels safe and secure in you and basically can confide in you in anything....
So there probably isnt a chance you would ever date...
Nor you would be in a relationship....
And if he would ever want to be in a relationship with you the best way to start it out is by being friends...
So hey just hang in there be best of buds..
if for some reason down the road he wants to date you ...
so be it..
but let it take its own course....
dont force nothing and be there for him....
be his bud, his friend...
2006-08-05 09:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by mcdspurple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is either he is not really interested in dating you or maybe he has been hurt by his last relationship that he is reluctant to start so soon or it can be possible he sees you more of a friend/sister thing. If it was meant to be then it will blossom into a relationship, if not chalk him up as a good friend.
2006-08-05 09:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by angelsfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 22:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by rotanelli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship with a guy & after awhile he told me he just wanted to be good friends, but now he doesn't hardly talk to me. I cried, of course, but you just need to go with the flow. If he is going to be like that... then it's HiS loss, not yours.
2006-08-05 09:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Chels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋