I love my BF and our sex life is awesome...no complaints here!!
But sometimes he can not make me have an orgasim so I have to fake it for him to feel good.
We have sex 4 times a week, i fake it at least 2 times.
Who about you?
2006-08-05 09:25:05 · 22 answers · asked by Maggie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You two must not be very open about your relationship. If he know anything about a woman, then he surely knows that making a woman have a big "O" isn't very easy and doesn't happen every time. You need to educate him about your turn ons, otherwise you will keep faking and making him think he is really pleasing you. You could start by saying "lets try this" or "do this please", etc.
2006-08-05 09:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, women dont always orgasim, If my husband (we're young) Doesn't make me orgasim, I tell him, and you know what, he gets disgruntle and he does other things, until I do. It's pretty fun. We have sex about 3 times a week, But we do it 2-3 times that same night, so i guess we're not ready or need too the next day.
See if you're not honest, he's not goign to know weither or not he's doing it right or wrong. You have to have great communication with your partner, and tell him what you like or dislike, and vise versa, then sex would be ALOT more interesting.
Also, Be open and honest with him, faking wont get you anywhere, unless you just want to please him.
2006-08-05 09:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by anjui63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has faked it at least once... trust me. Sometimes you just can't. You can't concentrate or you were not really quite in the mood and you are just doing it to please him. If it starts to be a constant problem, sit down with your partner and tell him. Honest communication that does not lay blame is the best way to find out why you are having to fake it and getting you to the point where you don't have to. And if you are getting it four times a week you are a lucky girl. LOL
2006-08-05 09:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Onegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every women that has sex fakes it occassionaly and if they dont want to admit it they are lying. I just wouldnt get in the habit of doing it so often. Just tell your man that it takes alot of work for you and sometimes you just arent capable of having an orgasm and thats ok with you. Some advice though is to buy some toys and have him use them on you during sex. The bullet is awesome. Oh my, have I said to much?
2006-08-05 09:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by chlobug26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Why would I go through all that trouble just to fake it?? If I'm gonna have sex, Ima get mine too! No quittin' till I say so. I urge you to get a vibrator for him to use on you because then you will NEVER have to fake it. That was the best investment my man and I ever made. www.edenfantasys.com Try it. You'll be addicted.
2006-08-05 09:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Tori ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definity faked this one before. If not the male ego is crushed and they will not "try" to last till the end from then on. Men must feel as if they are in charge or they loose interest quick.
2006-08-05 09:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by American Pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I on no account pretend it - i don't continuously have an orgasm, yet I on no account pretend it. What they don’t comprehend gained’t harm them – in spite of the shown fact that it does harm you. in case you pretend it – what you're telling the guy is that what he grew to become into doing, quite have been given you off – so he is going to maintain doing that frequently from now on. it quite is super in case you extremely DID get off – yet once you didn’t and what you're coaching him to do isn't friendly for you – you're in simple terms growing to be a international of harm for your self. No – faking doesn’t harm adult males – in spite of the shown fact that it does harm you. to boot – it quite is not user-friendly to ask a guy, or assume a guy to be basic with you whilst each and every sexual adventure you have ever had with him isn't something yet a lie.
2016-12-11 07:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by nichelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't fake it cuz it's lying to the guy. If they not doing it right then oh well. That's on them, but I'm not going to fake it to make them think they doing something right when they not.
2006-08-05 09:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you ever fake it, if he's not doing it right then tell him what you do like, don't let him keep doing it wrong...if he loves you and thinks the sex is awesome then he'll do what he can to learn what you like best and do what he can to get you off
2006-08-05 09:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by mtugodfath3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL I have deffently had to fake them
it's not to hard eather i am very good at it
I know i prob shouldn't but w/e I can understand why they don't get why i never called them agein
2006-08-05 09:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋