Does it make you self-conscience when you cant make a girl have an orgasm. I know a lot of women cant have them by vaginal intercourse. Do you try other things or are you selfish?
2006-08-05 09:18:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men have one central conflict in life, caused by our two central "drivers"... 1. We like to fix stuff. Never tell us about a problem unless you want us to fix that problem. 2. We're about the moment. This moment. Satisfaction RIGHT NOW. Once we're done, many men are only seconds from either falling asleep or grabbing our pants. Therein lies the conflict... You have a problem, so we'd love to solve it for you, but on the other hand, zzzzzzzz.
Personally, I'm a big believer in fixing the problem each and every time.
2006-08-05 09:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but then I would rather make love than have sex. Sex is basically selfish. Making love is about the other persons feelings and needs. What goes around comes around, so to speak.
2006-08-05 16:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by Unknown Oscillator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had times where it was either, hard to give her an orgasm or just takes a long time, But everyone I've been with I was able to make ***. But 1 told me she had never had one before til I made her ***. I'm a pleaser though I enjoy getting my partner off more than getting off myself. Getting you off gets me off......get it?
2006-08-05 16:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband doesn't feel self consious, he just does other things until I achieve orgasm.
2006-08-05 16:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Tori ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take on a personal responsibility to make sure she's satisfied, if that's what she wants. We in this thing together!
2006-08-05 16:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if the fist one comes fast i keep them hot by playing with the clit kissing and sucking the breast neck ears etc until i get get my second wind by then they have come or are close to it when i stick it in
2006-08-05 16:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by cashville_con 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love foreplay. i can make a woman orgasm from oral sex.
it's all about what you know. not the size.
2006-08-05 17:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never had the problem..of course foreplay is really fun for me!!
2006-08-05 16:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys never find out when a girl fakes it
2006-08-05 16:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by Maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fro me its VERY important for her to get her cookie first, then i move in for the attack. fingering, licking, sucking and/or all at once, ALWAYS ladies first.
2006-08-05 16:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋