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You should have used birth control.

2006-08-05 08:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by shikk79 3 · 0 0

People make mistakes every day try talking with your family ..... pride will get you every time. There are places where you can get help. I dont agre with an abortion but there things that you can do and places you can go. You can even leave the baby at the hospital. You need to find a place a family member or a shelter apply for some type of assistance and get a job there is help you have to make the first styep to help your self good luck

2006-08-05 10:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by candy girl 1 · 0 0

whoa, this is a loaded question and one that I am facing from the other side right now. First, I have to wonder how old you are and why you are homeless. No judgment, I just have to wonder. I have two grown step-daughters, three little boys at home....I can't imagine not knowing where they were going to sleep that night.

My advice to you may sound harsh but it isn't. I am speaking this as if you were my kid stuck in this situation.....my nephew is in this same situation right now, he has a little boy, his girlfriend is pregnant again and they are homeless and jobless. This little boy has driffted from friends sofa's, to where ever they all found a place to crash for the last 4 years. They love him, I don't doubt that; but they need to make some changes in their lives or they need to do what is best for their kids, if they can't take care of them they need to find someone else who will.....preferabley someone who will do the right thing and make sure they keep a relationship with their kids, so they grow up knowing who their parent's are, knowing that no one tried selfishly take away from the children instead of giving them more.

Can you try and reach out to someone in your family or community to either help you get back on your feet or help you find a loving place for these precious kids to be while you CAN get back on your feet.

For us, we hope to care for my great nephew, at least for a while, until his daddy has a chance to go through a drug rehab program. I don't even know this little guy that much but he is a great kid, just because he was born into this world, and he needs help.

My husband and I have done foster care in the past for the state and I tell you that kids need stability. I've seen kids who were acting out, because they had been living on the street with their parent's for years come around and find their childhood again once they got stable.

You seem like a good person. There are a lot of good people in this world who would be willing to help you, I'm sure, in all sorts of ways.

For now, take good care of your health, your baby needs you, and be open to people God may put in your life. Concentrate on taking care of yourself and your little girl. Live day by day for now, don't let worry overtake you. I wish I knew where you lived. My heart goes out to you.

Take care, you will be in my prayers.

2006-08-05 10:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Greencastle PS 2 · 0 0

Have an abortion. If it is too late, give the child up for adoption. Find a good, stable home for your two old. DO NOT HARM these children before they have a chance. The two year old needs a home and food. There are many, many people out there that would open up their home to that little girl and give her a good life.

Then, my suggestion to you is go to a shelter or wherever. Get a job, go to school and make something out of yourself. STOP having unprotected sex. JUST STOP HAVING SEX FOR AWHILE. That is not the kind of attention that will end in love or marriage.................Do this for your children. Don't make them grow up in this poor environment.

2006-08-05 09:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

kk if u ahve a family around u then go to there home and eg them or then go to a shelter and why dont u have a job aply now leave ur daughter in a school or like a ptreschoool somtin like dfat she has to e educated next then u can pay them wen u get utr cheack but if ur lazy them go to a shelter! wait !!!!!!!!!! u have no home no job how did u get this coputer why didi u get a computer instead of saving up mponey for a house?

2006-08-05 08:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

This is a tough decision. I know mistakes happen but you should really have done EVERYTHING possible not to get pregnant. Where is the father? Why can't you stay with him?

Perhaps you should consider putting your new baby up for adoption, or in foster care until you can pick yourself up.

Good luck.

2006-08-05 08:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0 0

Go to a Crisis Pregnancy Center and ask for help and advice. They are free, confidential, and they are there for the purpose of assisting women in your situation. Here are some numbers and links you can check out:

Birthright International - 800-550-4900 / http://www.birthright.org
(Birthright provides all kinds of free and confidential assistance to mothers in need, from baby supplies to financial assistance information.)

OptionLine - 1-800-395-HELP / http://www.pregnancycenters.org
(Connects callers throughout the U.S. to their local pregnancy center. You can call them 24/7)

Hearbeat International - http://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide_directory.asp
(This is an online directory of pregnancy centers. You can type in the city and it will locate one for you.)

They are all really good people and will help you with the things you need.

:)

2006-08-05 09:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Carol_ne 2 · 0 0

go to a homeless shelter or make the father of the child do something about it you shouldn't be alone go to your parents for help (if you can ) Count on family members at this time of need and I will pray for you as for a job go apply ALMOST EVERYWHERE i know Burger King hires pregnant women I wish you the best of luck hunny.

2006-08-05 08:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by spida_kat 3 · 0 0

So have you figured out yet what causes pregnancy? I suggest you file for child support from the father of your children for one thing. If you go and file for assistance that is what they will tell you to do anyway, or they will want his name and address so that any assistance you receive for the children will be deducted from his salary if he is working or deducted from any income tax refund he receives if any. I also suggest that you abstain from any sexual activity until you can figure out how to use condoms and as well as any other reliable form of birth control.

2006-08-09 01:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

So you have no job and a little kid-and you got yourself pregnant again? Way to go!
How come you have a computer and internet to be able to post this question?

2006-08-05 08:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0 0

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