my girl friend is talking to another guys how can i no what she say to them
2006-08-05 08:40:53 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you dont trust her? its okay to share things in a relationship but some people needs some things to be kept private like passwords if you know she is trying to hook up with other guys you got a gut feeling why stick around for the heart ache just because she wont give you the password doesnt mean shes hiding something
2006-08-05 08:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't!!! If you can't trust her, then you don't have a relationship. Just because a person chats on the Internet with someone of the opposite sex doesn't mean that they are being disloyal. You need to trust her. If you don't feel confident about your relationship, then call it quits now.
2006-08-05 09:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust your girlfriend you shouldn't be with her. Talk to her. Tell her how you are feeling. If she really respects you she won't talk to other guys online. However, you do have to understand that us girls are just not friends with other girls but with guys too.
2006-08-05 08:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its really frustrating to worry about your girl talking to other guys but if you love her and you want things to work out between you guys you just need to trust her. Being nosy and invading her privacy will push her farther away from you and make her like you less. Trust me! I was with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and I had a problem trusting my him, I was always checking his phone and asking him questions about girls. He got so frustrated and fed up with it that he left me. He did talk to girls but he loved me and he never cheated on me and he never would of done anything to hurt me. He was a wonderful person and was always trying to make me happy. I lost the love of my life all because I was insecure with myself. Don't let it happen to you. If you don't want to loose her you just need to trust her. I know from personal experience its really hard. If she loves you and cares about you she won't do anything to hurt you.
2006-08-05 09:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do not trust her now...you never ever will...you will spend the rest of your life thinking that you have to check up on her...that she is constantly doing something wrong...there are ways to get passwords...but you are showing great signs of insecurity by sounding so desperate...so what if she is talking to other guys...is she sleeping with them?...if not...STOP WORRYING...play the game...best way to do it...pretend it doesn't bother you one bit...and while she is talking to other guys...talk to other girls...or even if you aren't...pretend like you are...it works...TRUST ME...no matter how much you want to...DO NOT say anything about her conversations with other guys...don't even give her a clue that it upsets you...with everything in you...pretend like it is no big deal...and do exactly what she is doing...hell...i will even talk to you if you want...just for kicks...(that is of course if you are 18 or older)...lol...trust me this will work...play her game...but ALWAYS play to win... :)
2006-08-05 08:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you trust her. Are you trying to control her. She needs to have some privacy in her life. You can't make a person stay with you, all you can do is trust them. Don't you want her to have friends, men can be friends to females to, it doesn't mean they are trying to hook up. Tell her you trust her, and that your glad she has friends.
2006-08-05 08:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, and if you don't like the answers, dump her, but don't violate her privacy. If it turns out to be an innocent occurrence, you've still made an *** of yourself by doing the unthinkable.
2006-08-05 08:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is problem but u know if she talk to another then let her.ur the guy u can found so many more than her.show her that u can found more make her jealous we will see
2006-08-05 08:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by cute sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im thinking there is no trust in your relationship...... do you talk to other girls on the computer? outside of home or work? during work? mybe she should find a new guy
2006-08-05 08:47:57 · answer #9 · answered by p3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try using brute force algorithims with a big dictionary or try s/w such as jack the ripper which will take time but u will ultimately reap the profits... or.....
Use.. magic PS software...
2006-08-05 08:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by princeof_earth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋