2006-08-05 08:21:51 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you need to be confident. When you have confidence in yourself and you believe in yourself, then you will be able to conquer your fear. I used to be that same way and I had to pray to God. He removed that from me as I got delivered and I have not looked back. I suggest that you do the same and He will send you the right man. Stop stressing yourself over this matter and first love yourself. Then once you have the love of God in you, He will show others how to love you and then your soul mate will appreciate you. The key word and the moral of this story is to have patience. Boys will love you for who you are and not just what you have to offer.
2006-08-05 08:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by rellshon99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, no one is too fat to have a bf/gf. If you don't like the way you are then begin to change it. How you are on the outside is a direct reflexion of how you see yourself on the inside. In other words if you believe yourself to be fat and alone then you will be that way. How you perceive yourself to be controls all aspects of your life. You will consistently make choices and desicions that make you into who you think you are. The hardest part in changing is deciding inside that you are different than you believe presently. Once you change you self image, almost magically your life will begin to reflect it. The weight will come off, you will be more confident and at ease, guy will start to notice you. The choice and responsibility is yours and yours alone. No pill, class, or fitness guru can do it for you. . Your life rests squarely on your shoulders....
Other then that always try and remember;
"don't take life too seriously, no one gets out of it alive"
2006-08-05 15:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Curious Kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fat becauses you eat too much and don't exercise enough. Focus on losing some weight and perhaps the boyfriend issue won't be a problem.
2006-08-05 15:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you need to have more confidence in yourself. Confidence is sexy, go out there and try meeting new people. I don't know what you're definition of 'fat' is but curvy girls are cute too! you dont have to be stick skinny, you can always diet and all that other stuff..
2006-08-05 15:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's your low self esteem. Guys see you as you see yourself, so don't think of it as fat think of it as more to love. If you think you're sexy then your attitude will change and it might make you actually look sexy.
2006-08-05 15:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by sherrlulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being hard to yourself will not help to your bf hunting. be positive & a guy perfect for you will love you just the way you are
2006-08-05 15:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by uallsuck.com@hotmail.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you being so harsh to your self....have you even tried talking to any guys you like or guys in general?
2006-08-05 15:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by Envi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your definition of 'fat'?
2006-08-05 15:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by crikeyme_mate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure your not and you will get a bf, just be patient
2006-08-05 15:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you eat too much
2006-08-05 15:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by Adam Ding Dong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋