It was his wife's idea (they are married couple). She is a hot chick with really sexy figure. We chatted a few times before and each and every times she never run her eyes of my body.But I love my gf too. I really don't know if it is right things to do.
2006-08-05 08:16:58 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I might be embarrassed to see her again if I disagreed. She might have thought that I find that she is not good enough.
2006-08-05 08:37:49 · update #1
no it isnt a good idea
2006-08-05 08:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by alyssa k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know where this is going to head in the long run. The fact that you have come on here to ask advice shows you have concerns and worries about this. Don't feel pressure to be involved with something you really personally don't want to do. No matter how much you are in love...your partner, if the feeling is respectful and mutual will understand if you decline. listen to your head...you really know the answer, you won't be letting anyone down but yourself if you go ahead with this and feel regrets at a later date. You'll know what to do. Good luck with your decision.
2006-08-05 08:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by minitheminx65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD GET EVRYONE IN A ROOM , THEN U ASK THE PEOPLE IN THE ROOM HOW WE FEEL 4 ONE ANOTHER . BUT U SAID IT'S THE WIFE IDEA ARE U NARRIED? HOW DO UR WIFE FEEL ABOUT IT? IF SHE IS DOWN AND THE WIFE IS DOWN THEN HAVE A THREE SOME LEAVE THE HUSBAND OUT AND ENJOY URSELF WITH BOTH WOMEN. AND IT'S JUDT 4 A NIGHT NO ONE WILL GET HURT I HOPE. GO HOME U AND UR WIFE TAKE A SHOWER TOGETHER AND ENJOY THE NEXT DAY TOGETHER WITH SOME DINER SOME WINE AND WATCH T.V TOGETHER.WELL U LOVE UR GIRL FRIEND AND THE WIFE IS HOT THEN DON'T DO IT UNLESS UR GIRLFRIEND DOSE NOT MIND THEN U CAN GET IT ON.
2006-08-05 08:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kayquan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you if it is right or wrong in a moral sense. We all have to make up our own minds about sharing.
I will say that there is a great risk of emotional hard feelings and pain. Insecurities and doubt bloom in a situation like that. Believe me, it takes a very strong relationship to survive “swinging”. Some people seem to be fine with it, but it has been my experience it isn't at all good for most people. Although exciting and fun!
2006-08-05 08:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know if it is right or not ask your girlfriend what she thinks about it. You will have your answer right away! Either she will be up for it or will be extremely mad at you for even thinking about having sex with another woman. Don't ask her if she wants to sleep with your best friend. Rather give her the scenario without naming a couple in mind and see if that is something she would go for. However, if you were my boyfriend I would be very mad at you for even considering this and would most likely reconsider our relationship. Wanting to have sex with your best friend's wife would make me feel like you don't want me as much anymore and that I am not good enough for you. Your choice though.
2006-08-05 08:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't seen her, my friend, but I already believe that the woman isn't good enough... that's for sure. About your friend... he is either an idiot or he is into your girlfriend reeeeally bad! What's wrong with you people! You are embarassed that the other woman will think you don't like her and you are not ashamed that you will pass on your girlfriend to him? How will your gf feel if you tell her you even thought of stg like that? Will you not mind if she dumbs you? Sorry I am a little harsh on you, but you have to think a little deeper than that!
2006-08-05 09:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will most likely lose your girlfriend. And, the other friendship will never be the same, probably much worse. Keep the fantasy where it belongs...in the mind. Very few people have the mental make-up to deal with this type of relationship. And, they usually have lots of other problems in their emotional life.
2006-08-05 08:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by GOSHAWK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This couple shouldn't be married if they just want to screw around with different people... and if you truly love and respect your gf you wouldn't even consider this a legitimate question. There are so many better (and SAFER) ways of having sex with your gf than to do this....trust me , you'll both regret it afterwards.....
2006-08-05 08:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by ShellRe' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea because it will have you wondering every time your partner is around the other couple what is going on behind your back.
2006-08-05 08:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by texast7500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do tht .... u r one of the ppl i hate... thts wrong buddy...i dont think u want ur love to be enjoyed by some 1 else just bcoz tht other girl is good n hot.... never do this even if ur girl is bad at body... bcoz the main thing is LOVE.... u don wanna share n exchange ur love ur girl 4 ny1 else... i wont even if i get to have the worlds most beautiful woman.... i wont....
2006-08-05 08:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by hitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea. If your girlfiend discovers your friend is better in the sack then you or vice versa, bye..bye...
End Results: A broken relationship and marriage
2006-08-05 08:22:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋