II always thought my step-dad was a good man, but one morning I came down stiars and saw him looking at butt naked girls. I told my mom and older sister. I don't know what to think of him anymore. I need some real help. 10 pts for best! Please! Please! Help!
2006-08-05 08:13:10 · 7 answers · asked by Aaron 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ok, Sure its hard to see your role model sink. but that is just what some men do. He is just feeding his sexual feelings. Its not to be taken seriously. sure its REALLY tough to look @. but he doesnt mean to hurt any one from it. Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel, and maybe you can work things out.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-05 08:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Proud2bgoth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you thought your step-dad was a good man and he might be. Maybe a friend of his sent him that material as a joke and he was checking it out...or maybe he found it somewhere in your house brought in by someone else. It just could be anything. What did he say when he was confronted about this?
Has your sister complained about him. These things are important to know before I can judge this person.
2006-08-05 08:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by ricardocoav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were young girls he was looking at then you did the right thing, if it was women, that is between him and you mom. There is nothing to worry about ask your mom, she will understand your confusion and help you to sort it out. Ask her alone not in front of the family.
2006-08-05 08:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean naked women on TV or in a magazine? Well, he's OK if that's all it was. Don't get too upset. That don't mean he don't love your mom. Tell him it really upset you. Now, if there was real naked women he was looking at, that's different!!
2006-08-05 08:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by somepeopleRstupid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
On T.V.? I personally see nothing wrong with it. He was at his home right? Fantasies are just that.I bet your momma had fun.(not tryin to be gross...sry).Ask your mom if this is okay with her.She may not mind.â¥
2006-08-05 08:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by bamahotT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it bothers you talk to him about it and let him know how you feel
2006-08-05 08:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by eryka442002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just porn. Men do that.
2006-08-05 08:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sorcha 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋