i have a christian gal friend who likes to have sex with me. i don wanna sin. she said she accepted The Lord.?

Question

she shared with me that she had a muslim boyfriend and was having sex w/him, tho not yet married. she is veeery open w/me. i told her since she has The Lord, (saved about a month ago) she does not need a muslim to marry her. now she appears in love w/me & keeps askin me to satisfy her sexualy til she gets a christian to marry her. i pity her honest feelings, tho sometimes i fl so tempted. am married. do i run away frm her tho she is a babe spiritually & leave her for dead?or shd i continue helping her spiritualy? i feel that her feelings are a fact even to many.. we nd to face facts/realities & not run away frm them. help me since i don wanna sin twice. i strictly DONT & was very clear to her that its bad, am married, but she seems too young spiritually, to understand tht once forgiven u shd forget what u did & move on in christian love, not lust. help! we don nd to lose a babe.

Answer 1

You should have sex with her. After all, you're married, aren't you? And isn't this what married people do? Have sex with people who aren't their spouses? And she's christian. And isn't it part of the christian religion to have sex with people who are married. Adultery is widely accepted in the christian community. And sex before marriage isn't a sin in the eyes of God. *rolls eyes*

She is far from religious. But that is a typical christian "follower". It's people like her that make the christian community look bad. It's not that Christianity has been tried and failed. It's that it's never been tried.

She is not a saint. She is a demon. Flee, before she ruins your marriage. She claims to love you, but only wants to use you as a sex tool until she marries a christian boy... She's insane. Step away. Step very away.

Answer 2

If you are worried that you might give in and sleep with her then YES flee like there is no tomarrow. I have heard of many 'chrisitans' who use religion to gain trust and get close to people but then manipulate them into things. Im not saying I dont think she is saved, but her ideas are off. I appreciate your heart, but you also have to protect yourself. Im not saying abondon her, but find someone else. There are a lot of Christians out there that can help. Maybe she should find a good church or group. Meanwhile when seeing her, make sure you dont put yourself in a dangerous position. Always meet in public and never be alone. Also can your wife help? I think the best person for her is a woman counselor or friend. That way advice can relate. She could possibly see something good in you but is mistaking these feelings for lust. I hope it works out.

Answer 3

Sex is not just a physical act. It is a spiritual act as well.
We are helping our Creator to create life. Sex creates
real spiritual energies. And those energies create real spiritual bonds. If sex is all they seek, and they dump somebody later. They will have put a curse on themsleves
that will have to be atoned for. They call it Karma.
This is not something to take lightly. Especially since we
live in a time of reckoning. It is not the end of the world.
But those who overcome, will be taken into the highest heavens. And those who fail, will fall into darkness. Spiritual realities full of hallucinations and agony. So now
is not the time to play around.
If you love each other. Get married.

Answer 4

She sounds like she's very confused in what direction she wants to go right now. As a man with the temptations that surround you plus your history with her, you should not be anywhere with her alone. Matter of fact, you need to talk to a wise godly woman that can mentor her and help her gain some control of her life and ask her to befriend this person so that she'll have some guidance that isn't a temptation.
Bottom line, back out of the picture, she is trouble for you.

Answer 5

some human beings will say that it is a sin, others do not think of that it is. what's particularly important is what you experience approximately it. If on your heart, you have self assurance that it is not precise or not some thing you desire to do, or if it is a few thing you could experience ashamed approximately, then do not do it. in case you do not think of it is a brilliant deal, and you desire to, then you definately can. yet, in the experience that your boyfriend measures your 'love' for him by ability of what you will or won't do for him sexually, then he's not being very respectful to you. If HE particularly enjoyed you, he does not be putting rigidity on you to furnish him oral intercourse, and he does not attempt to cajole you by ability of asserting "oh, it is not a sin." finally, it is as much as you to make the alternative. do not enable everyone else make your techniques up for you. x

Answer 6

She is full of crap and she is not a christian. How do you believe she is a christian when she is wanting to commit a sin and wants you to commit a sin by having sex with her. She is not saved. She is also wanting you to commit adultry? What is wrong with you? I would stay away from her, she is nothing more than a snake in the grass.

Answer 7

tell her more about Jesus and the bible. teach her that spiritulity is greater than the flesh> the flesh is an enemy of God, we have to learn to be more spiritual and respect God's law> don't be to pushy, but talk to her and teach her about what is "good" in god's eyes, hopefully she can wait until marriage to have sex and she'll understand why> peace.

Answer 8

You need to stay away from her after refreshing her memory on Gods Views of sex before marriage. It is all there in black and white....

Answer 9

I am a muslim,very religious,but having sex with my boyfriend,it is a sin for both,for anyone who is doing it,but we do it anyway ;-)

Answer 10

Sounds like she's a hood rat with a clever gig. Play or play not. It's up to you.