2006-08-05 08:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
leave them alone most of the time and give them a call from time to time to see if they're still alive
2006-08-06 05:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by deecharming 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When we go to the College, at the outer doors of the subway station and the streets usually there are at least two policemen, I don't know why during these years, they are often replaced by Ambulances, Old man's medical car and the angry fire trucks.
I don't need the help of an old man's medical car, or ambulances.
It is not naccessary to have two empty fire trucks with 120 db noises with a police car comming together every hours.
2006-08-05 08:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by JAMES 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people dont want to be bothered by others and need the silence to try to think their lives out. and some people just dont feel they need to go on when there doesnt seem a purpose to their life.. this can happen at any age. and as myself i am in limbo.. but if i was in this limbo and age 69 instead of 49, i think i would find myself having a hard time dealing with it. especially when it seems life feels as if it has run out of time. you can only help someone who is willing to be helped. but usually it has to be someone who has some experience in the spiritual type of way ..or a person who has been there in that way and knows the right things to say. but i am sure in all cases it takes time for people to come around. and there is no set limit of time either. could be weeks months or years. you can only try to help by jogging their mind. forcing them will only cause resentment towards u.. good luck
2006-08-05 08:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by xxbigkisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They push away cause they want to ba alone, just wait a little until they get over the situation.
2006-08-05 08:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by mary_loves_christ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are sure that they're really worth it, you will (unfortunately) get used to hanging out kinda in the background while they re-compose or whatever the hell they do.
but don't let yourself be a doormat; don't let this person treat you like crap anymore than your normal friends would.
that is to say everybody has good & bad days. sometimes i need to isolate to re-charge, but i don't treat the ones i love like they are my personal toys that i can manipulate and treat them well only when it is convenient to me.
you make certain allowances for certain people and their "certain" personalities, but if they love you back, they won't take advantage of you or take you for granted.
i hope this helps somehow. good luck dealing with your difficult loved one.
2006-08-05 08:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by breezy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there even if silently. Keep going back.They are pushing you away because they are low inside they are crying out for help support comfort and understanding and you.Trust me.
2006-08-05 08:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by angelle_76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard but be patient and don't give up. Whatever is going on in that persons life will hopefull subside and you will be embraced into their life again or they will realize they need your support. Good Luck, just be patient.
2006-08-05 08:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥HeidiJustine♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such people assume that you will abandon them anyway so they don't want to go through the pain. Be there, be there, be there...it will take time
2006-08-05 08:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by alcavy609 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i kind of have some friends going through the same thing....i say just give things alittle break... cause that's exactly what they want
2006-08-05 08:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Love Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them know that you are there and that you care. Not much more you can do,
2006-08-05 08:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Paige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋