well i'm a very shy person, to be honest, and the girl who i like is very commonly shy, we talk here and there but when i try to approach her, tryin to be more than friends, she i dont know ignores me or something, her friend told me that she had a "crush" on me for a long time, but i dont know..
2006-08-05 08:03:33 · 10 answers · asked by Sad Monkey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear trust me on 1 thing... Girls lyk straightfoward men.... I knw u r shy but then she is also shy..... Make a plan 2 go out wid her sumday (I mean u n her alone) in a public place ... Make her feel comfortable.... Approach her wid a rose n tell her sweetly dat u lyk her frm d past sumtime n wanna b wid her..... N then c wats in store for U........ Wish u loads of luck....Tk Cr....
2006-08-05 08:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by sugar babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rule 1 HW TO DO IT
if she is shy then she might be the girl who walks alone now u can go n talk abt anything interestin like her work movi or jst the weather bt if she is in a group than it is alot easier stand near 4 1 min lisen to wt they sayin and make a pt like u know everythin and remember y r on her side bt if u think she is wrong then carefuly lovinglu correct her
rule 2
never get to senti
rule 3dont go 2 fast or 2 slow
rule 4
dont let take full control over yur life
rule 5
act u r not desperate bt make her deperate by yur attitude
2006-08-05 15:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually met my wife in 1977 the same way! :)
We were both shy, and I had no clue how to meet her, or communicate with her, so I wrote a note, and just walked up to her, politely introduced myself, explained I had been wanting to meet her, and that I wrote this note to help me explain, would she read it?
She read it, and that was 30 years ago next year! :)
Being creative and innovative is appealing to all people, try it! It just might be that special aspect about you that attracts the right person! Good luck!
2006-08-05 15:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Life after 45 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually some shy people are even MORE shy when they are near someone who they actually like. Good luck!
2006-08-05 15:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Allyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know she has a crush on you, she's probably just nervous, and doesn't know if you are interested. Tell her straight up that you like her, and you both will feel a lot more comfortable with eachother.
2006-08-05 15:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by ToxicBeautyQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up one morning and go talk to her. Its all mental my friend. Tell yourself your going to do it and do so. Your stomach is going to have butterflies and the whole time you start talking you'll have wierd feelings within yourslef. Ignore them and dont succumb to them. Trust me. I had the same problem.
good luck bro
2006-08-05 15:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is shy and you are shy, write a note asking her to meet you somewhere, it should spare you a lot of blushing and freezing up.
2006-08-05 15:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by maysimay2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably REALLY nervous. Get some confidence and just go talk to her, trust me, confidence is something women love.
2006-08-05 15:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy walk up compliment her ask her out that simple dude trust easy easy easy good luck!
2006-08-05 15:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by skaterguy8675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being a gentleman and her friend....first.
2006-08-05 15:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋