2006-08-05 07:58:23 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't want to then just say no, it almost seems like he's using you to have sex with her anyways
2006-08-05 08:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by mtugodfath3r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The proposition of your bf is atrocious .To find out his real intentions tell him that you want to do a threesome with his best freind first in a real serious tone before going forward with his proposal to test his idea if it is good enough and see his reaction , if he readilly agrees to do that than he is only after sex and is not really interested in any pure relationship of heart and soul.In this case beware for he may be using you to have sex with the other friend of yours . If you go ahead with your bfs proposal than the relationship of you your bf and yours best friend will not be the same anymore because you will start being suspicious of each other and the relationship will go sour for sure. So think about that too.Because life isnot only sex all the time.
2006-08-12 21:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by sumant b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In NO way should you even consider this , unless your relationship with your boyfriend and your girlfriend is already on the rocks, and will soon be over anyway. If you do go through with it , I'd give the life expectancy of both of these relations less than 3 months. On the slim chances that they survive, expect them to change forever, but probably not for the better. It's always disasterous to bring a third person into your relationship. Beleive me, I know. Good Luck to you.
2006-08-13 07:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Tody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go for it because stuff like that doesn't work out. To the fact that he wants to have sex with someone other than you is kinda lame. Also it could mess things up with your best friend. So if you do have a 3some it is a very big chance of ruining your relationship or even friendship.
2006-08-13 07:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'll do so a long as he gets a sub(pen)a from the local pro(bate) court ;) Honey, I don't know, but I'll bet this kinda thing sounds a lot more fun than it is in the few minutes "afterwards". Just a lot of embarrasment. Anyway, looks to me as if the big decision may have already past. Hope everyone's okay. (Happens all the time, son...)
2006-08-13 06:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd really stop and wonder...why is my boyfriend interested in F*cking some other girl.......especially my best friend?Did he stop and consider you and your feelings at all?Or do you guys just have a REALLY open relationship?????Doesn't sound good and from what I've heard from several friends/acquaintances, it NEVER works out.Think about when it's going on......are you going to be able to sit there and watch her give him pleasure.....maybe he'll make some face or something and for the rest of your relationship you will never know if he got more pleasure then....Plus, what makes you think your friend will want to >?????
2006-08-05 08:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want the relationship to last, dont do it. Read between the lines! He wants to be with you because your "girlfriend" material, but he thinks your friends hot and will probably cheat on you with her after the threesome.
2006-08-05 08:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Do you and your girlfriend have intimate moments now? If so let him in on the fun. If not, cuss his a$$ out! He is looking for a slick way to have sex with your friend where you won't be upset. They might just be already doing it. You need to dig deeper into this one.
If you are comfortable with that and your girlfriend is too, then go ahead and share your man. Be prepared for them to start having casual sex without you.
If you are not comfortable, don't do it. Not with any chick. Ask him if you can have sex with two guys. Not just freaking on you. With the other guy freaking on him as well!
2006-08-12 04:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by pretty_brown_eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-08-11 02:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How much self respect do you have? How much respect do you have for your friend and your boyfriend? Is your BF worth more than yourself respect? Is your respect the same as it was before the question came up? Wisdom is usually learned with hindsight, please think this question through before agreeing, because once it has been carried out, it will remain in your conscience, your mind, your reputation (if ever blabbed), and most important in how you feel about yourself.
2006-08-05 08:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by MEDUSA 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me he has the hots for your friend. tell him the same thing that you want a threesome with you him and his best friend and see what happens. dont use your body to fill his greedy *** .
2006-08-13 04:50:18 · answer #11 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋