There are 2 guys, both of them say they love me,and want to make a life with me,i keep trying to break it off with guy #1and guy# 2 talks to me every night,,,guy#1 can only get a chance once in a while due to his work...guy #2 talks to me every day and night...but it seems it goes back to guy #1 all the time no matter what i do or try to do....i have no idea what to do..i do not know which of the two i want to be with and destined to be with...Can i get feedback from this?...any answer you have i'll gladly listen to.
thanks everybody
2006-08-05 07:46:46 · 11 answers · asked by confused angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You actually sound immature and stupid!!! Grow up!!!
2006-08-05 07:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, there is no 'destiny'. You will end up with the person you end up with based on your OWN decisions, not someone elses.
Secondly, you already know which one of these guys you like more. Guy #1 is the one you keep thinking about even though guy #2 pays more attention to you and is obviously more available. It's possible you're more interested in guy #1 BECAUSE he's less available, but thats for you to decide.
Keep in mind that you dont neccessarily have to be with either of these two. You sound young, and you have your whole life ahead of you. Dont make a life with one of these two simply because theres no one else around at the moment...
2006-08-05 07:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I understand your situation. I had that problem and I chose wrong but in the end the right guy loved me enough to forgive me.
You have to think what life would be like if guy #2 (who calls you every day) was not in your life.
Could you live with that?
What would your life be like without him.
Would you miss him and how much.
Do you love him?
Do you want to be with him?
The other guy he may be mysterious and gets to you when he can, although it is because of his work. You have to write out the pros and cons. My mistake was I thought the other man would come around and he never did. So be smart and think about it in the future sense. Who will be there when you need them? Who asks you about YOUR day. You know what I'm saying? Good luck to you.
2006-08-05 07:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by trouble comes a knockin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you're very lucky to have 2 guys willing share their lives with you. well, it depends on your age. If you are serious about settling down, choose someone who loves you more. But if you think you're not that ready to settle down yet, just enjoy the company of both guys, until you finally see their true colors. and that's time for you to decide.
2006-08-05 07:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by mad scientist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situtation...... well im always going back to guy #1 like u do... but i cant talk to him much cause he works and everything sooo... i just try to stop talkin to him and if he really likes u.... he would try to keep talkin to u... like my guy does, he texts me once in a while if i dont talk to him in a few days... and guy #2 if ur really not into him as the other guy then let things ride... til ur feelin one of them and u think u will get the chance to have one of them....
2006-08-05 07:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one do u love the most the first one or then second one cause u love one of them the most then u should break up with the other one
2006-08-05 07:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave em both and become a nun :) lol no you should probably just take a break for a while and then what ever happens happend good luck luv -amanda
2006-08-05 07:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder which guy has the most staying power (waiting power); geez, I don't even have one guy! Perhaps soon someone will take one of them off your hands.
2006-08-05 07:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really, mosy girls don't even have 1 guy. R u sure they love you? What they said.
2006-08-05 08:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with both of them
2006-08-05 08:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by arun_themask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋