My first son was born July 10. I had him natural. I was happy because didn't want a C section and my doctor did everything he had to make sure I didn't have to have a C section.Baby came out face up or as they say in lamaze sunny side up. So the point I ripped from one hole to the next. I healed well and only had taken pain meds for about 3 days after labor. Doing everything I was doing before beside lifting heavy stuff and I'm no longer bleeding. But doctor says may be 6 weeks before I can have sex again so my bottom can completely heal. But call me crazy but since me and my husband have been together I've never gone this long without sex and I'm going crazy any advise on what to do?
2006-08-05 07:45:03 · 24 answers · asked by Sondra 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Wait until you feel that it's okay to have sex. Like, you don't hurt at all down there. Make sure you use some sort of protection. Your chances of getting preggers again are really high the first 3 months after having a baby. We waited 4 weeks, but I know people who waited only 2. Then again, she had a C-section, so it might have been easier for her. Oh! Congratulations on your baby boy! Enjoy him, b/c they grow SO fast. Mine son is already 8 months old. Sniff sniff.
2006-08-05 07:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by sean's_mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a third degree tear as well and had to go 4 months without sex. you might find that it is too painful anyway. really it is your choice whether to or not. he is just giving you his medical opinion. you have to weigh up the pros and cons of the situation. but if you do have sex just take it gently. I had to have 8 steroid injections along the scar tissue because it didn`t heal properly. the thought of going through that again would kill my sex drive completely.
2006-08-05 08:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is totally primary for a pregnant women persons to have a extreme sexchronic becuase of the hormones dealing with her. i'd attempt masterbating rather of attempting to locate a guy. attempt going out and paying for cool intercourse how you could which will benefit you. i does not circulate right into a bad relationship for the sake of the infant and the two considered one of your well being nicely suited now. attempt the extra fit technique I mentioned.
2016-09-28 22:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by rotanelli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you would do when you weren't having sex before you had a baby, for a little while longer
2006-08-05 07:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Meowmixtape 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After having a baby I noticed that was very sexual feeling. I played with myself
2006-08-05 07:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by shikk79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral Sex and maybe have him stimulate you gently with his fingers.
Both of you can be happy to do something for each other.
2006-08-05 07:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by jamiesonparker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a BOB (Battery operated Boyfriend) or have your husband give you a hand.
2006-08-05 07:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of the baby
2006-08-05 08:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Josh S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SIX WEEKS FOR EVERY WOMAN WHO HAS GIVEN BIRTH
IF YOU GET A CERVICAL OR UTERINE INFECTION FROM HAVING SEX BEFORE THAT, YOU CAN BECOME INFERTILE OR DIE - ASK YOUR DOC ABOUT THAT
2006-08-08 06:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you would want sex so fast, you need to heal.
2006-08-05 07:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋