are my prayers being answered?

Question

so my gf left me a month ago after a year and now she has a new bf that she met after 2 weeks of leaving me and began dating about a week ago..and lately i been having dreams where we r back together or dreams where we are hanging out and hooking up even though she has a bf..and in sum dreams she says i was her best bf and she dont know y she left me..its wierd cuz i been praying to god to send me signs of wats gonna happen with me and her anyone think thats how hes been aswering my prayers through dreams

Answer 1

Nobody knows whether your dreams are coming from God. They could be, but then again you might just be torturing yourself and these dreams are your mind's way of relieving the tension that you are putting yourself through.

You need to come to terms with this loss.

Remember that there was a reason why she left you. Either she is ungrateful, doesn't appreciate a great guy, and just wants to move from one guy to another..... in which case, you do not NEED somebody like that.

OR.... you did not treat her the way she wanted to be treated, she got tired of whining and complaining about that and decided to move on to another guy... in which case, SHE does not need YOU, and you should quit crying over spilled milk.

Either way... it's over, and dreams are not going to bring her back. Things may work out some day, who knows? She may be thinking of you, too, and you two might hook up again.

Nobody knows. And you need to move on with your life.

Once you have consciously resolved to accept this unhappy event in your life, then you will unconsciously be able to get her off your mind. In other words, your dreams will stop when you make yourself accept this.

Answer 2

Nope those are your hopes and dreams, not hers. I had a boyfriend that I kept dreaming about like that too, but the more I thought about it the more I realized we really were not in love and you just move on. The dreams go away and you build new ones in time with someone else. God speaks in mysterious ways,but its wise to distinguish between a sign from God and your own feelings of hope for something that is no longer an option for you!

Answer 3

I believe it's possible, but don't count on it. Usually it's just our subconscious mind telling us what we're feeling. I had a dream that I thought meant something more than it did, and when it didn't come true, I was heartbroken. But I've also had dreams that came true. (My son) I suggest that you try to get on with your life, and if things work out in the end, you'll know the dream was right.

Answer 4

That's a heavy question. Understand a few things,
1. God answers prayer
However,
1. He does not always answer prayer according to our time table.
In other words God is not a magic geni. We don't just rub a lamp, make a wish and boom our prayer is answered.
2. Sometimes God's answer to our prayer will come in a different form than we expected. In otherwords, God may have someone different picked out for you. Or God may want you to to get on with your life and mature and develop yourself before he gives you another girlfriend,
This is where Faith comes in, God answers prayers but he answers them according to his will for you on his own time table.

Answer 5

God does speak to us in dreams but He also knows what is best for us and shows us by the fruit of His Spirit. If the fruit is good it is from God and if it is not good it is not from God. When you get two or more people telling you the same thing or see two or more things that are the same in reference to your question or situation then that is what is called confirmation. Wait patiently and be honest with yourself. She may be what you want or think is best for you but not what God wants or knows is not best for you.

Answer 6

okay it's just your mind trying to figure things out. I mean think about it do you think that God would condone adultry? Even though he is just a boyfriend cheating on him would be not far from that. My sugjestion move on maybe you guys can keep the friendship going and maybe it will come to pass that you towo do get back together. But for now let it go.

Answer 7

He might be but it could just be your wishful thinking. God does everything for a reason. She may not be the girl for you and your dreams will go away soon enough. If you love something let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be.

Answer 8

Chances are no...u fantasizing man!!! God has a plan and knows what is right for you....it may not be that girl. Trust that you will end up with the right person, dont dwell on that chick.

Answer 9

Sometimes God gives us dreams. Sometimes it is our mind. Only time will tell.

Answer 10

YES> I believe that if you sincerely ask God, he will answer you. Keep praying so that you may understand your life better and to learn more about loved ones. peace.