So I've been "not dating" this guy for about 7 weeks, and I think I'm gettingh blown off. I don't play games, so this is hard, how long should I wait before texing him again?
2006-08-05 07:43:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok yeah to clarify, he was married, I was married, we were inseperable for like 5 weeks, then the last couple of weeks things started to get weird because neither of us wanted a serious relationship but thatsd where it was headed. I text'd him yesterday and got one of those dumb one word answers and havent heardfrom him. We usually hang out on the weekends and yadda yadda... pt. 2 - Some buddies and I are goign to the bar he usually goes to, should I let him know s I dont run into him and it's all weird? AHHH dumb single life..
2006-08-05 08:15:18 · update #1
If this guy likes you he will text/call you! If he has not called or text you then he is not into you. AKA he doesn't want to see you again. Guys are like faucets...they run HOT or COLD. Either he calls you and asks you out or he doesnt call because he wants nothing to do with you.
If you text him you will just look desperate and probably annoy him because you may be the girl he doesnt want to talk to anymore. So if he has your number, wait for him to call and dont call him. If he never calls then he wasn't interested anymore. It sounds like you are getting blown off. Dont feel bad though. Guys do it all the time even to the hottest of women sometimes for no apparent reason at all. Like i said, they run hot or cold.
2006-08-05 07:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Educated 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your feelings, I've been there myself. If you haven't heard from him in 7 weeks, then either he's not interested or he might be feeling that you don't care, it's so hard to tell. What I would recommend is to send him a text message or an e mail or whatever and give him a few days, if he doesn't respond then there's your answer.
Take care and hang tight. I know it's difficult and sometimes angering.
2006-08-05 07:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt text you DONT DO IT remember guys have their pride.. it sucks but its true... whatever you do don't be the first he'll only think you're easy and you'll end up hurt more than you are right now.... if he does text dont text him right away wait like a day or two let HIM KNOW that even though you like him you're not just going to give into him quickly,, make him wait like he has left you waiting. Hope this helps and best of luck.... Keep your head up no matter what happens k? bye.
2006-08-05 07:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Antonella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not playing games, then text him and now and ask for a simple answer if he's interested or not. I had to put up with that with a guy once too and he basically lost interest and let me know the most "drive-me-******-insane way possible...by ignoring me in every aspect. A simple "not interested" would be mature for fuks sake.
2006-08-05 07:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont wait...meaning...dont wait around for him...I assume that you are a really kiff person...and if he cant see that and he isnt making the effort...then move on and find somebody else! Ok so sure he textes you every now and then, probably only when he has nothing better to do! So girl, its time to ditch the loser and find yourself a honey!
2006-08-05 07:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by brown eyed girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends when the last time u talk to him, if it was like 1 - 2 weeks no commication u might have a slight chance but i, myself, would know that the time to back off. even if i don't want too..
2006-08-05 07:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by ijenjen3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just text him rite now and see what he says, u can never be 2 early or 2 late 2 text a guy ok
2006-08-05 07:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by pretty baby gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop texting him. Call him. Do something that will assist you in determining these interest one way or another and stop waffling! If you already think he is blowing you off he probably is. See him call him, do something definite or forget it.
2006-08-05 07:48:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about how long... i been off and on with this guy and i think its been like 3 or 4 months now.... just text him when u feel like it
2006-08-05 07:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he's in the same situation as you. To break the ice, quicker, why don't you text him first? Good luck!
2006-08-05 07:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by Allyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋