i broke upp with my bf, && like practicallyy right after we broke upp he got together with my friend. && he kept saying he broke upp with her, && he wants me back. i wasnt thinking, && i took him back. then we recentlyy broke upp again, because he he was acting like a jerk [[more than usual]] && right after i broke with him i found out he was cheating on me with 2 people. he alreadyy told me he was witrh one person, but he denys being with the other. && he keeps asking me out again. im not gunna be with him again, i alreadyy gave him about 4 or 5 chances. i usuallyy only give people one chance but i reallyy like him, but not after what he did to me...
pleeasee help???? i dont know what to do..
2006-08-05 07:41:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up w/him and don't look back. he cheated on you w/you friend. oh and ditch the friend too.
2006-08-05 07:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, firstly let me tell you this: halfway through, you did the right thing by breaking up with him. Then you made the mistake of going back to him despite his history of "unfaithfulnes". I think you should just break up with him no matter how much you like him; otherwise, he'll just trample your heart over and over again because you let him get away with it! Find a new man, honey, because it's time to move on! (make sure he's worthy of you too and makes you feel good)
2006-08-05 14:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by ♥TransylvanianVamp♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you dont know what to do, but obviously you DO know what to do. You said 'im not gunna be with him again', so dont.
1. You KNOW he's not a good guy, and that hes only going to hurt you, so move ON.
2. Stop using '&&' instead of 'and'. It looks really lame.
2006-08-05 14:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to chill out. No man/ boy/ whatever he is is worth all this stress. Move on. If he's so awful, think about why you like or liked him so much. Find a guy that treats you good, but i have a feeling that will bore you.
2006-08-05 14:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by prankstar1328 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, if it didn't work the 1st few times... DON'T keep trying! Move on girl! Every moment you waste on him is a moment you could have been giving another guy a chance to know you and fall in love with you. *hugs*
2006-08-05 14:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by Flyleaf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm, tell him once more in no uncertain terms. After that, if he calls or sends you things, ignore it. He'll get the point. If you think you're ready, start looking at other guys that have your interest. Nothing like saying "It's over" with another boyfriend.
2006-08-05 14:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by aghostprofilebeingempty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please listen to me i've been through something similar. i broke up with my bf of 4 years and i really loved him but as much as you love him you have to let him go. He does not respect you because if he did he would not be cheating so many times. I know it hurts but as time goes by you will realize it better going separate ways. good luck
2006-08-05 14:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by eryka442002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you give one chance?
Stop with these chances. Dont let guys hurt you. Show some strength and really end it. He is not worth your time and you deserve better.. CUT HIM OFF.
2006-08-05 15:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you don't know what to do...
You do know what to do, you just don't like doing it..
there is a difference..
You threw him out appropriatly.. stick by what's right and do not take him back. Move on. You deserve it.
2006-08-05 14:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with life and forget about him. There will be a better guy out there.
2006-08-05 14:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't change him, leave him. otherwise you need to give him chance after chance and carrying with this forever. It will be worst if you have family and baby next time.
2006-08-05 15:42:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋