2006-08-05 07:29:51 · 42 answers · asked by lover girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your question is not that uncommon, both here online or with friends or co-workers. Back march I had a surgery to treat a medical condition, one of the side effects of the surgery is a smaller penis. I was just under 7” long and 5 ½ circumference before my surgery. After the surgery, I was 4 ¾” long and 6” circumference. Short but clinically large when it comes to thickness. Anyhow, I had no idea that the penis size was such a big deal with women. I know that most women say that it doesn’t matter, and yet, I keep seen women posting questions like yours. But what really made me realize how important it really is to women, it’s after the surgery, just about every female friend or co-worker asked me what type of surgery I had and why. I always explained to them why and how and all the good stuff, but what intrigued me was their reactions when I told them about my new size. That’s when I realized how important size really is to women. A whole lot more than they are willing to amid. I’m not saying that every women wants a big one, but they don’t want to get stuck with a real small one. Unfortunately women just like men, have been brain washed into thinking that a smaller penis is inferior to a larger one.
But it’s better to see to think of sex as dinner. Your penis, because of size, may not be the main dish on the table, but it can be the dissert. If you think of masturbation as the appetizer, oral sex as the main dish, and you satisfy her that way, then you penis becomes the dissert. It's not needed, but it's always nice to have, and it’s not uncommon for the dissert to be better than the main dish. The truth is that that’s the way it should be for ALL guys, regardless of size. But most guys, specially big guys think that a couple of minutes of masturbation and/or oral sex is the appetizer, and their penis is the main dish and the dissert all in one.
2006-08-08 21:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a point at which it matters to the man and the penis-related insecurity isn't sexy. As far as the physical aspect, if a man can engage every part of you in sex, you will feel any size penis. I'm telling you, I had the most transcendent kind of sex with a guy a dated who was by no means endowed.
2006-08-13 05:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Care 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you care for a person. Naturally, as a woman our answer would be that size definitely matters. Some females are willing to over look this and try different things to make up for this problem. It all depends on how you feel about you feel about the person.
2006-08-12 13:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it only matters if the man does not know how to use what he does have or if a woman is unable to find pleasure in what is being done with her. I think it is another issue of - to each his or her own. There are so many other ways to create passion and pleasure than with a penis. If both people are creative and comfortable with the bodies they have then flame can be sparked by touches in other places.
2006-08-11 19:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it does not matter at all. anything above 2"(50mm) is considered to be ok. the sensitive part of the vagina is only about 2" deep from the surface of the vagina. so need not worry about the size of the penis. pleasure sought by both the partners is in no way related to the size of the penis!!
2006-08-05 07:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Abhijit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time penis size matters to me if its so small i cant have an orgasm
2006-08-13 02:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a girl? why does EVERY guy ask this? I'm a virgin, but no. Unless he needs to reach, but there's no way u can please a woman sexually. 18 spots. And 50% NEVER orgasm. I say brain? Plus if she loved u which is why she's having sex anyway, I'm guessing sex? then it wouldn't matter. Guys are so dumb. And worry so so much about size, get a life. WE DON'T care.
2006-08-05 08:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the woman. For women, sexual arousal is mainly mental. If you have a small penis, there are MANY other ways to bring a woman to orgasm, believe me!
2006-08-05 07:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you can satisify her in other ways, the answer to that question would be no. But if you cant do that either then you have a big problem and the size of your penis is not one of them
2006-08-13 01:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by velvetred_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about the size of the organ unless your playing Carnegie Hall
2006-08-12 19:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by Ford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋