I'm with tihs guy,and the first night I met him I like,ummm,I wanna say gave it up to him,but I didnt have sex with him but I was kissin him the first night we knew each other,and I knew this guy,and I hadnt seen him in like a grip,and I saw him when I went to the river swimmin the other day,he asked me for my # and I gave it to him,but he still hast called me! But when he does do you think I should break up with my b/f (who cheated on his gurl with my by tha way,and didnt tell me,and he tottlly ignores me) and go out with the other dude,or cheat on him with the other dude?THANK YOU!! PLEASE BE HONEST!!
2006-08-05 06:50:00 · 13 answers · asked by SaMi MoE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if the guy calls, you should talk to him and get to know him first.. and then if you think its right.. i fYOU feel its the right thing to do, break up with ur bf (who .. as u put it.. doesnt seem to be the best.. please dont kill me...) and go out with the toehr guy.. if that is what YOU want.. dont let anyone force you to do anything... not even me..
2006-08-05 06:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on people is never the right thing to do and if any guy cheats on his gf with you - then once he gets "bored" of you - he will cheat on you too and so on and so on - that is what these guys do. If you are in a relationship with someone that you are even considering cheating on them - maybe that guy just is not the guy for you b.c when you find the one that is for you - you wouldn't think of that.
It isn't fair to him and everyone would get hurt in the long run - even you. You could at least afford him the courtesy of telling him or breaking it off with him first - why cheat on someone?? If you are going to be with someone else, then just break up with the other person since they are not right for you - obviously,
Even giving the other guy your # was the wrong thing to do - I know women get some kind of thrill out of seeing a guy that is attached but you have to wonder why - he'll never be all yours, the relationship is not based on honesty and trust and never will be and he will do it again to you - it is unevitable. If you are giving your # out to any other guysb.c u are interested in them in that way - let the other guy go and save him the pain from cheating on him cause it always comes out in the end. And you will always know and feel guilty when you see him - it's not fair to fool around with one guy and then another at the same time. I kind of make it a practice not to do anything that I would not want done to me so think how you would feel if he did that to you - not too good right? So I would say this is a sign to break up with your current guy but not for a guy that already has a girlfriend - find someone else who is free - who you might be able to have a relationship with. Relationships are about trust, honesty, loyalty and loving or being exclusive to that one person. If you are not willing to do that - don't call anyone your boyfriend and just date other people and tell them then that you are not exclusive to anyone and that you are dating and this way - there is no cheating - this way you can see more than one guy if you want to figure out what you are looking for and most importantly the guys can decide if they want to deal with that and see you when they know there are other guys involved - but give them that choice - don't make it for them =)
2006-08-05 07:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs do not make a right. You should be with the new guy, but break up with your boyfriend first. This will show the new guy that you care about being honest.
2006-08-05 06:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 22:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by rotanelli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,these r all regular cases.If u feel bad of him,leave him.It will reduce some worries for u.Thinking about him for a long time has no meaning bcozhe should think about u.BUT HE KISSED U....:-)He may be thinking of u ,when he is alone.---beware and take care-For some people ,Love sucks!!
2006-08-05 06:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by MaxMetallica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to dump both........i guy hasn't called you the other is a player??? Find you someone that is worth having u!!
2006-08-05 06:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking US to be honest? you need to be honest; you are out of control! you do not need to give any excuse as to why you REALLY want to have sex with someone...
2006-08-05 06:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve already cheated on him by kissing the other guy, so i would say, dont be a cheater again.
2006-08-05 06:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by cheese_octopus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wanna get bac at ur bf 4 cheatin on u, thats ur choice, but i would break up wit him if he ignores u.
2006-08-05 06:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him and then you are free to do what you want. why do you want to start being a cheater and a liar? be honest.
2006-08-05 06:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by VOLLEYBALLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋