Funny how it works people are naturally attracted to others When you are young physical attraction is everything. As one get's older thou you seem to change. Other things play into the role. A beautiful soft smile knowing he it thinking about you for example. Someone who takes an interest in the things you do and feels there life is better for it. Lots of other things turn us on when we are older Coming from a 38 year old.
2006-08-05 07:10:43
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answered by soo 2
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You might not agree. In some cases girls are like the guys. Looks are an important factor. You may be the nicest person in the world but if your not hansom then forget the inside. Seriously, would you approach someone who doesn't attract you physically?
2006-08-05 13:54:06
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answered by finest_573 1
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The first time you meet a guy looks play a part - if he's not good looking you don't get an instant attraction. But once you get to know him, if he's nice/funny/your type, then looks are not really important. In the same way a good looking idiot is not a good thing!
2006-08-05 13:53:16
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answered by ? 4
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Yes... but I think that comes with maturity. Have you ever noticed that someone you wouldn't be physically attracted to becomes more and more attractive because of their intelligence, sparkle and sex appeal... and the more attractive person will become less so because they have nothing else to offer.
I used to work with a guy who had so much sex appeal, he was Dutch, balding and skinny, after I got to know him better, I was so attracted to him, he was sooooo sexy, gorgeous brown eyes, killer smile, intelligent, funny.... unfortunately I couldn't do anything at the time as I was married!
Sex appeal is what makes someone attractive not their looks.
2006-08-05 14:13:18
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answered by dirtyminx82 3
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Personality is the main thing that keeps a relationship going - initially there has to be some attraction though or you wouldnt even start on the road to a relationship
2006-08-05 14:48:51
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answered by LifeChange 3
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usually I would look at their looks and if they've got too much pimples on their face, my mum will chase him out of the hse and then vommit. But look in the terms of personality, it is also very important. Sometimes a really gd-looking man becomes your BF, many girls will fall 4 him in an instant, and that makes you really jealous, what's the point? so, personality always comes 1st, in my opinion...
2006-08-05 14:08:05
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answered by Resha Valentine 2
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Absolutely!!! Looks fade, but a good heart and a great personality lasts forever. The real question is, why doesn't guys feel the same way?
2006-08-05 13:54:11
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answered by ? 3
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yes personality to me is very inportant more then looks
2006-08-05 13:50:46
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answered by vampgirl_00 3
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i guess that at first glance, i would definitely look at the guys looks.. that will capture my attention.. and from there, i will look at his personality. its no use if hes good looking but his personality sucks! in my eyes,, whats beautiful is final. whats Hott! to me, may not be hott! to someone.. so i guess everyone views things differently.
But Of course, a certain standard is important.. the guy should have basic mannerisms.. and not dress sloppily.. fart aloud, burp aloud or dig his nose in public! thats disgusting!! He should definitely be presentable.. in clothes and manners, actions etc...
2006-08-05 13:59:07
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answered by xmanchuriax 2
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personality is deffo more important than looks 2 me ..obviously u dont want a total ugly freak but he dont have 2 b perfect..after all none of us are , are we?
if ya can get looks and personality even better LOL!! Does such a man exist?? :)
2006-08-05 13:55:02
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answered by sam 2
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