My girl is going crazy because I hugged this other girl.?

Question

But the thing is me and this other girl have like a brother/sister realationship. Its not even like that. She wont listen to me. What should I do?

Answer 1

That's a shame that she cannot trust you. There is not a thing wrong with casual hugs. I have hugged men with girlfriends and I am engaged and that does not bother their wives or girlfriends or even my fiancee they all know it's friendly and that it's just my good nature to hug my friends.

I think you need to talk to this girl and let her know that she really needs to trust you. I don't want to be mean, but that does indicate some levels of immaturity. If she cannot trust you now, that can complicate problems later.

Answer 2

Well if you are ina relatioship, physical contact with another girl, evena hug, could be crossing the line. Do you hug your homeboys when you say goodbye? No? Then why do you need to hug a female friend when you say goodbye?

All your girl sees is you having a close enough relationship with another girl that physical contact is exchanged. That is a threat to her. You can either respect her feelings, even though she may be over reacting. OR you can tell her you can't see yourself with a person who gets jealous so easy and is insecure in herself and you. If you dig this girl you can lay off the snuggling with other girls and she can work on not being a crazy 8itch.

Answer 3

Your girlfriend is being crazy right now. That is a fact. However, some people can't help being extremely jealous. Continue to tell your girl that the hug was meaningless, but also try to boost her self-esteem. Tell her how beautiful she is, what you like about her, and everything that made you love her like you do. But if this girl doesn't shape up and continues to display extremely jealous behavior, you may have to give up on her.

Answer 4

Are you sure that this other girl sees it as a brother/sister relationship? Sometimes girls will do things to get close to another girls' boyfriend , little things that seem innocent but aren't.
If you want to stay in a relationship with her, I say don't hug your friend in front of her. Be respectful of her feelings.

Answer 5

She should be less insecure for one thing. The bes thing to do if you want her to be happy is apologize and reassure her. Here's the thing it isn't a matter of what you think is right or wrong it comes down to the fact that she's not happy with what you did. If your not willing to do that and put up with that kinda thing get out now.
Nothing's worse than an insecure women.

Answer 6

Have patience....she's just being possessive,
When she's in a good mood, tell her the relationship which u share with the other girl.

If she doesn't listen 2 u, then maybe u should'nt continue the relationship. It's not advisable 2 be with a girl who is extra-protective & would never understand u!!!...

GOOD-LUCK!!

Answer 7

If you don't have trust in your relationship then you don't have anything. If she doesn't belive that you guys are just friends then she probably wont belive you on other things too. Ask the girl to come over and tell your girlfriend that you guys are just friends. If she still is mad at you, dump her.

Answer 8

Your girl is insecure and has issues she needs to deal with. If she won't, it will not last. You are not supposed to change who you are for someone else, and if you and other girl are close then, chick needs to back off. She needs to discover why she feels so insecure so she can move on to healthy relationships. Good Luck

Answer 9

Ok listen up, if your girl is young that's the problem, women are more insecure when they are younger.....it gets better with age.

Answer 10

Tell her to grow up and get over it. It's just a hug and if your faithful then whatever. If she doesn't trust you then why be in this relationship?