I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months and I know he was cheating before but like I kind of understand that some people don't like getting rid of all their options in the beginning of a relationship because they are unsure how it will end up. And right now hes going through some difficult times and he wants me there for him but I still sometimes get the feeling hes not being totally honest with where he goes and stuff.
2006-08-05 06:03:26 · 6 answers · asked by beechgrl583 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have known that going into the relationship, your going to have trust issues.
A man who cheats with you while with another person, your going to always question his or her fidelity to you.
Sorry and best wishes to you
2006-08-05 06:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater alaways a cheater! dats jus normal but if u love him n u really care fa him den u gotta try da give it a try. but 1st u have 2 believe it yo self before u believe anything he say. yea he cheate before but now he wanna make it rite yes I do believe da sayin once a cheater always a cheater but I also belive in 2nd chances especially if u love him truly. jus be there fa him now since u say he r goin through a lot but also try da find a way or ways 2 fagive him n understand dat he did make a mistake but he's sorry n he really wanna make it rite. cuz yall been 2gether now fa 7months so yall 2 must love honor respect n care fa each other n good men r hard 2 find so keep yo babi girl n work on buildin up trustin him again it'll work out fa da better trust me cuz again worth workin on is worth havin n keepin. so yea u should try da find a way 2 trust him again.
2006-08-05 13:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by chicagodiva08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya
trust your intuition, gut feelings & heart!
You already have doubts...chances are you are right.
A leopard never changes its spots!
so learn to let this one go.
At most be a friend to him but not a lover or a gf cos u don't owe him anything!
So Choose wisely .....to be his gf or not ..it's up to u.
How much do u love him ?
HOW MUCH?
Ask yourself...no one can tell u what to do and what not to do !
Think about it...if you cannot live with his nonsense...let him go cos this one doesn't fit with you!
Stop wasting each other's time and lives!
GET REAL!
Stop waiting on him!
Just remember, You don't owe him anything!
Cheers!
2006-08-05 13:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there's no excuse for cheating. If he was unsure of the relationship, he shouldn't have gotten into it, point blank. You guys can completely have a spark, and have a connection, that doesn't mean he's going to be faithful. If you keep letting him step all over you, he'll gladly keep doing it. Do your thing, let him do his, apart.
2006-08-05 13:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust ure instincts,i believe if theyve cheated once and got away with it then there is nothing to stop them doing it again!!!
2006-08-05 13:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater.....
2006-08-05 13:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋