hey girls, if ur bf is like across the state about 6 or 7 states away how do u stay in touch with him? I talk to him on messenger and everything but hes hardly on so we dont talk much. What do I do????
2006-08-05 05:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by belly dancing girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call on the phone.
2006-08-05 06:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text messages, messenger, telephone, emails, visits
Its hard to be in a long distance relationship. I know, i was in one for a year.
They don't usually work out because of whats basically happening to you, the lack of communication.
Mine was able to work out. But you have to have both parties really commited to trying to make it work.
That means that your bf has to try and get in touch with you too which is sounds like he doesn't do. Why not try talking to him first about where you guys want to take this relationship and then try setting up times and days that you guys meet each other online.
2006-08-05 13:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by Gabriella P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem. my bf lives far away so i can only see him about twice a year. if he truly loves u, he will make time for u guys to comunicate but if its more lust than luv or something then it'll never work out
u could try calling him but if u r the only one making the effort and calling all the time then he isnt worth it to stress over
2006-08-05 13:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by roxychik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
I agree with Adria!
If he's not talking much with u, chances are he's out there with someone else.
I rather be blunt and frank and honest with you so you've the reality !
Be realistic and move on !
Stop wasting time on someone who is not going to be there for you!
2006-08-05 13:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard. Chances are; you need to find another beau that is in your area. Don't hang your hopes on someone who cannot be there for you.
2006-08-05 13:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using IM on your cell phones and you can leave them signed in at all times.
2006-08-05 13:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love him and he loves you then no matter what it will work out... If he is choosing not to stay in touch then maybe you should break it off with him...
2006-08-05 13:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Funny Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call on the phone, not the cell phone, but the phone in the place where he is
2006-08-05 13:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by C. B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send letters. its cute and better than im's.
if letters arent your style try emailing or phone calls.
2006-08-05 13:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by mervelash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him or get a new bf.
2006-08-05 13:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by Melody Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋