theres dis guy i know,we both like each other but hez in a relationship with some girl i know.he not too serious with her but i cant help the way i feel.wat shuld i do?
2006-08-05 05:47:57 · 25 answers · asked by www.piczo.com/ALN16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as much as you like this guy there is someone else who he shares his innermost thoughts and feelings with and someone who has had a few experiences with him that means a lot. you just have to think," if i were her and i was with him, and there was someone out there who liked him as much as i do what would i want her to do." then do the honorable thing and leave him alone. you are a woman and as much as you like this guy you should not hurt a sistren. remember what goes around comes around- eventually you will find someone who is worth the wait. trust me.
2006-08-05 05:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by ayana j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone. If he wants to break up with that other girl and pursue you, fine, but you should not do anything that is underhanded or dishonest in any way. Think of how you would feel if some girl came to needle her way in between you and your man? Pretty awful, right? So don't do that to someone else.
If you're meant to be with this guy, it will happen in the right timing. If you're not, no harm is done to any of you by NOT pursuing a relationship that would have ended badly in the first place.
2006-08-05 12:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should fight for him,you have as much right as she has over him.You must consider the fact that this man you look at today might be your future husband he might be the only thing that stands between you growing up to be an old lady who lives alone in a small cotage with your 67 cats and happiness you have also said that he is not that serious flirt with him for a while and when you think he is ready sleep with him again and again then ask him how much do you love your girlfriend?he should be your by now after this if he still shows love for his girlfriend,get yourself pregnant with his baby and he is yours for the taking!!!!
2006-08-05 12:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by blackavaritia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What else CAN you do? other than wait patiently for the two to break up, and then leap into action. In the meantime, introduce yourself and try to make friends. Who knows, things might happen sooner.
2006-08-05 12:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him or flirt with him in a way that makes him want you even more. Therefore he won't be able to get you off his mind and hopefully he leaves her for you. Or get the girl interested in another guy so shes the one that slips away.
2006-08-05 12:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! hes with some one, no matter if they are not serious or not... you cant come between some relationship, its just like some one is married and they say they are spliting but you dont know if things wud not happen as they say........... just move on, if by the time, u are still single and he and his gf broke, well you can make your move.
2006-08-05 12:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by beautyprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on getting a good education and learning how to write and to spell. That would be the most important thing.
2006-08-05 12:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to be interested in guys, but you have a kindergarden education, that is what you need to work on first. How in this world did you ever graduate first grade???
2006-08-05 12:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by leadfoot126 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be smart and move along. You have to respect the relationship! There are more guys out there, so get to it.
2006-08-05 12:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he feelin you and you feelin him mess around a bit and see what happens cuz obviously the one he with ain't doin it for him if they are not serious and he checking you out.
2006-08-05 12:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by Optimistic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋