how do i tell him i don't like it without seeming prude???
2006-08-05 05:40:17 · 19 answers · asked by Tess Tranquillity™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would talk to him about it the next time he does it. tell him your uncomfortable with it and if he really likes you he will respect you and listen. if he gets mad at you, its probably that he is using you.
2006-08-05 05:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I simply say to him in a confident, stern voice. "Look I love your kissing me, but I am not ready to move that next step. I would really appreciate that when you kiss me that you don't try to put your hands up my shirt. It's not that I am not attraced to you, but I am just not ready for that next step." If he screams/hollars/gets upset, then move on, he is only after one thing from you. And he is not appreciating you for the person you are on the inside, but just wanting to get into your panties. Sorry to be so blunt.
2006-08-05 05:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Gilligan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That action seems to be what males do. Your telling won't stop him. If it's irritating don't see him anymore. Just say no and leave. There is no way to do it nicely. Maybe you just don't like it with him...maybe you'll find someone you really like.....seems like just lust to me and isn't worth continuing without the feelings and respect.
2006-08-05 05:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him kiss you. Many date rapes are started with just a kiss. It's a terrible thing but certainly something you should have in mind and be cautious of
2006-08-05 05:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the last 2 ppl that answered this question before me....I went to the movies with my guy friend (who had a gf but she wasnt there) (i thought we wer only friends) and during the movie he kept trying to kiss me or stick his hand down my shirt! UGH! sooo now im mad at him and his gf dumped him and hates me.....(BTW i slapped the CRAP outta him...it was fun!)
2006-08-05 05:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with Wet Lips
2006-08-05 05:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by krisforre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it, you're totally a prude.
2006-08-05 05:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to slow down, you just want to enjoy his kissing or move his hands toward another area you would like him to touch instead. your butt, hips or even your hair
2006-08-05 05:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gradually grab his hands and have them touch you where you want them to touch you. He'll catch on.
2006-08-05 06:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by Alisa Lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he sounds like a jerk
2006-08-05 05:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Benks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋